Family time sounds cute. You didn’t answer anything about putting in the time to do your share of the hard work. There will be a lot of hard work even if you outsource a lot. Today you can’t just say you want four kids, you have to commit to being their caretaker, or at the very least an equal partner in their caretaking. Otherwise you will sound, and do sound, like you want to enroll her into a life that will be a lot harder and less free than your own. she is balking and wants to further her education for a better chance at equality and more freedom. |