Parent w/ Parkinsons, next steps...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am so sorry for your loss, and i hope your dad’s memory is a blessing for you and your family. I truly hope you come to a place of peace and also that your mom can take care of her health needs and that she will be ok.

Thank you. Today we meet with the funeral home to plan. We moved south several years ago so our extended family is 'up north' so we are going to bury him in that state (his wish) and have a celebration of life for him there, in a few months. It's going to be Hawaiian themed because that was his favorite place. We might even get matching Hawaiian shirts to wear to it Mom's needle biopsy is Wednesday, she's hardly had time to worry or think much about it, which is sort of a blessing in disguise.

[Anonymous]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Your parents are fortunate that you were advocating for them. Many elderly do not have that. Please be kind and patient with yourself. Easier said than done but try not to play and replay what should or shouldn’t have been done. I did that and felt sad and depressed. Sending you a virtual hug.