I lost a baby a while ago, and “About You” and “Bigger Than The Whole Sky” are two songs that I always skip unless I am home alone because they destroy me. I am not surprised they were written by two artists with a deep connection to each other. |
yes, and I am here for it. ...will Matty reply or stay silent? |
DP. It reminds me of 80s alternative bands, like Psychedelic Furs (Heaven, Ghost in You) or New Order. Just beautiful. |
You guys are really romantacizing this whole thing. Just guessing, but you sound pretty young. From someone who is probably quite a bit older and able to speak from more life experience, believe me there’s more you want in a life partner than butterflies and weak knees and writing poetry all night. Maybe she has that now.
“You already know, babe.” |
Yes! I am so glad someone else on this board gets it. |
I am in my 50s and happily married to a stable partner who is wonderful and no poet But then I am also not Taylor Swift, who can live out her entire life like the single best, wildest, funnest day of our youth, and I support that path if that’s what she or others choose. Why do people assume everyone wants the life most of us on this site have (moms, wives, corporate jobs)? Her reality is so different than ours. There can also be happiness and fulfillment in a life of highs and lows with little gray in it. |
Well yes Taylor doesn't need a partner who has to help with the school run or make dinner. Neither will ever live a basic life. Matty is rumored to be worth $20m or so alone. |
+1 And I'll add that the whole Matt Healy thing shines a light on how unlikely it is that Taylor is going to find her happily ever after. Her approach to relationships is not conducive to a longterm match. |
You guys are crazy and in denial. This man is confident, cool and sexy af. And you know what they say about good dancers I get why Tay is down bad. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/BionleIX_ec |
After listening to the album, I get why she's into Travis. I knew nothing about Matty Healy until recently, but I see that she clearly goes for the tortured soul English types, right. But she just released an album denouncing how her fame has infiltrated all facets of her life, that if you want to see mean, great you created it when you came after me; why can't it once be me; where's my soulmate, smallest man who ever lived couldn't handle me, etc. etc etc. Say what you will about her, her level of fame is next level and she's been in relationships where she's been hurt because she felt like she wasn't worth it in the end; where they let the court of public opinion dictate their actions.
Cue Travis Kelce who parades her around, shows up, says he's not running from it, he's all in. That has to be music to her ears, pun intended. Someone is choosing her in a really big way. It's nice. |
Exactly! Sometimes there’s no bigger turn-on then a guy who pursues you, no matter what. And she’s obviously attracted to him as well. Any wonder there’s been recent articles that she fears her fame will drive him away and he’s interviewed by Billy Bush saying he’s not running away from any of it. I think that’s exactly what she’s referring to in The Alchemy when she talks about something that only happens once in a few lifetimes. He’s her “white wine.” “ |
Eh. Anyone who isn't a deep creative type is going to bore her after a while. She's in the mind of an adolescent, and she still wants the bad boy who writes songs about her, even if there is another guy who treats her well and says she's pretty and her concerts are fun. Travis is outside the very heart of what makes Taylor, Taylor. That being said, IMO she *should* put MH and anyone else like him away on a shelf for good and let herself be happy in a stable relationship. Time will tell what her decision is. |
Just curious, do you think she will still be in the mind of an adolescent in her 40s, 50s, and beyond? |
I don't. I feel like she really is trying to reconcile some personal stuff, and her support system is wide and deep. She seems to be looking for someone who can really relate to her. Travis has got the comfort with being a celebrity on a global stage part, but what thrills her is someone who sees the world and relates to it (and someone else) creatively the way she does. Tall order. |
I feel like it’s become a trope or an easy shot to say she’s got the mind of an adolescent. She really doesn’t, and it’s just so gross to keep parading that cliched bs out over and over again. The album she just released pretty much did a postmortem on all these guys, all at once and put them in a shelf, gave us the Manuscript, and my prediction is this is the last we’ll hear of her relationships. The fan base was chastised, everyone was, on this album. She let her inner B fly and it was great. |