That’s sad. And you’re awful. |
Do you ever use plastic or travel by car or airplane? Do you WANT to be a selfish person? Because of your actions my child was fed plastic infused breast milk and will grow up in a world of climate change struggles. That is a selfish choice. |
No, you talk loudly and spread colds, flus and Covid. |
Leaving them home is selfish. |
I was on a walk the other day and I saw a woman pushing her cat in one of those pet strollers.....don't get me started. |
Yup, this one. I like dogs but I now see 3-4 dogs every time I'm at Whole Foods. Folks, it's a health code violation -- they have a hot bar with open food containers and that freaking dog hair is getting on the food. It's like taking your dog to a restaurant buffet. Stop it. |
How about adopting a dog when your schedule is such that your options are (1) leave them home alone all the time, or (2) take them places they are explicitly not welcome, is selfish. I do feel bad for the dogs of people who have planned their lives so poorly that they feel they have no choice but to bring their dog to restaurants, doctor's offices, the grocery store, and events for young children. Like those dogs of dumb, poorly organized owners. That sucks for them. |
NP but I personally don't do any of this. I do have an aggressive allergy to pet dander though, so if you see me sneezing when you bring a dog into a store or restaurant, please know it's your own damn fault. |
So much of the cause of this is a lot of people whose living situation or jobs make having a dog inconvenient, decided to just go ahead and get one anyway. So you see these dogs in all these places they should not be, because their owner works 9-10 hours a day, travels for work, lives in an apartment or small row home, and the only way to get the dog enough exercise or to make their life work is to bring the dog everywhere. They take the dog to the grocery store because they don't have time to walk the dog AND separately go to the store. They bring the dog to school pick up for the same reason. They want to go to restaurants and bars to see friends, but their dog spent all day cooped up in their little house so they just bring the dog out with them. They have to travel with the dog because they don't have a reliable pet sitter, can't afford to board their dog, or their dog is so poorly socialized they can't safely leave him with someone else.
People had dogs 20 years ago and managed not to do any of these things. But that's because 20 years ago, people didn't get dogs when their lives were not remotely conducive to dogs. For some reason, many of today's dog owners just don't think that matters for them. I'm also astounded at the kinds of dogs people have in these tiny city homes with limited access to dog runs or places where the dogs could really let loose. So many vizslas, Australian shepherds, collies and labs. Folks, those dogs are bred to have a TON of energy and they will not do well with a couple walks a day. The reason your dog is neurotic AF and pulls at the leash and hates when you leave the house is that they are BORED and need to be able to run round and herd people and things and sniff everything and wrestle with another dog and play frisbee, etc. Why the heck didn't you get a dog that at least makes sense for an apartment or a more sedate lifestyle? Those dogs are cute too. Look at the dogs that are popular in super dog-friendly cities like Paris -- bulldogs and papillons and the like. These are dogs who can be totally happy to hang around an apartment most of the day and just go out for one 30 minute walk plus a couple toilet breaks. Great apartment dogs! Did you not research this at all before signing yourself up for a decade of dog ownership. Idiots. |
Slobber? I've never had a dog slobber, shed or bark st my when out in public! I will concede dogs could have barked at you but it could have been a good reason. Barking is communication. Like a baby crying |
We have to deal with a lot of things! One person's 'entitlement' is another person's necessity. |
And how is a cat in a stroller personally affecting you? Perhaps the cat has cancer and the owner wants to let the cat outside for air but knows that the kitty needs to be contained. Myob! This cat isn't even going to bark, slobber or shed on you! |
I think that this isn't a pet issue as much as it is someone deciding that the rules do not apply to them. I have a dog I love very much. She loves to come in the car to pick the kids up from school (she is allowed on the school grounds, I confirmed with the school when she was a puppy) but I would never take her somewhere that she is not supposed to be. If there is a sign stating that only service animals can enter, she is not going. People also use their cell phones when driving, fly through school zones when the lights are blinking, and disregard no turn on red signs all the time. Unfortunately, I think that this is our new normal. I'm always struck by the parents I see doing these things with their kids in the car...modeling the behavior that the rules do not apply to them. |
Bringing a dog everywhere you go is never ever a necessity. Ever. It’s a choice 100% of the time. |
Unless you have a legitimate medical need, where a dog/animal has been trained to perform a specific medical task to assist it's handler, then there is NEVER ever a "necessity" to bring your dog with you. |