my 24 year old daughter

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lets assume its a great guy with college degree, mental health, professional job and moral values but married early for some reasons like religion or culture and then had kids but had to divorce as marriage failed due to his wife.

If that's the case then why is he moving in with a random women he knew for few weeks. As a father, he should he shouldn't be rushing into new relationships so soon and so randomly.

Yes, just glad she changed about moving in with them for now, but just hope she finds someone way better.

[Anonymous]

What kind of insane, irresponsible person has 2 kids by age 25 ??!?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What kind of insane, irresponsible person has 2 kids by age 25 ??!?

And then divorces their mom and wants to move in with a random woman he just met.

[Anonymous]

To be fair, my grandpa had three by the time he was 25 and according to my mom and uncles, was a loving and responsible dad.

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a complete tool and loser. Ditch him fast!

[Anonymous]

Train wreck in progress!

[Anonymous]

Where did she meet this man?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He sounds like a complete tool and loser. Ditch him fast!

Thankfully she did!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where did she meet this man?

Online

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's her decision, she needs to learn her own lessons, you can't stop her and besides, she will need your sympathetic ear if things start to go south. Just tell her it seems a bit rushed but you know she is level headed, you trust her judgment, and you are there for her if she needs you.

This is bad advice, perhaps one of the worst pieces of advice that I have read on DCUM.

I think that you should be honest with your daughter about how this is bad advice. If she really likes this boyfriend, then after 2 years, she could consider whether to move in. But a 2-year period of courtship will protect her from making a rush decision that she will regret soon.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He sounds like a complete tool and loser. Ditch him fast!

Thankfully she did!!!

Congratulations OP!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No no no!!!!! He sounds like a loser of the highest order.

Why? Because he has two kids? I am honestly curious.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No no no!!!!! He sounds like a loser of the highest order.

Agree that it is BAD (!!!) to move in w/ each other, but what makes you think he is a "loser of the highest order" w/out knowing him????

Um, because losers move quickly as they have nothing to LOSE. Two kids at age 25? How old are these children? Was he ever married? Are the children from the same woman? A mother’s disapproval can be very powerful, especially considering it is likely that she still has some financial dependence on her parents. She will probably need a guarantor on a lease.

I believe they are 5 and 10 month old, two different "baby mamas", just hope they break up soon.

OMG i have nothing against having kids early but THIS ^ is insane.

[Anonymous]

I'm surprised a college educated teacher would even consider such a man.

[Anonymous]

Tell her to sit with him and plan a budget with their expenses. She needs to see how his pay covers rent, transportation, utilities, groceries, and child support x2. Does he have savings to cover rent should they break up or decide to live apart?

These can’t be things she knows about him yet!