When’s the last time a teething infant mauled his mother and landed her in the ICU? |
I dislike “dog mom” type dog owners, I am neutral about most dogs (I tend to like goldens and labs, and dislike pits and tiny dogs). I can’t say “I don’t like dogs” out loud because people assume I’m antisocial. In actuality I used to like most dogs , until I had kids, and witnessed off leash dogs 1) eating my kids lunch off of her lap in a park while my kid cried and tried to make it go away, its owner laughed and thought it was cute 2) running up to my kid on the sidewalk and biting her in the leg as she rode her scooter on the sidewalk 3) barking incessantly at us as we try to walk to elementary school and it’s tied up at the street corner (not allowed in school property) and lunging at kids walking past, once causing a kid to scream and jump into the road narrowly missing being hit by a car 4) bark for hours on end in the yard as the owners ignore it 5) licking my dog allergic toddler in the stroller despite me yelling at it and the owner (this dog was leashed even, but the owner just let it run up to the stroller and start licking) causing hives all over his face. Man I could go on, too. |
Nailed it. Hence the claim of seeking "unconditional love" from an animal. Lots and lots of people have pets that they love and care for, but still understand the boundaries and differences between human and pet. But there are a lot of dog owners who cannot comprehend the differences and put their pet on an equal pedestal. You don't see this in any other for of pet owner. |
Do you have a pet? |
Yes, I do. I love them, they bring me joy (and entertainment), but I don't seek validation or "unconditional love" from my pet. I certainly don't think they trump basic courtesy of other humans. |
I used to have dogs, and I…also never did those things. Weird, huh? |
Yep, this. I firmly believe that there will eventually be some kind of diagnosis for unusual attachment to dogs. |
Judging by the constant posts on this site including this one they and their owners are pretty much the scourge of the earth, so my conclusion is actually that most Americans really dislike dogs. The animosity towards them is enormous. |
It's not dogs that people hate--it's the owners. |
Because hoomans suck. |
I mean this is one of a long line of reasons why the rest of the world sucks. |
Right. Not all dog owners are emotionally stunted, but a great many are - the people who bring their dogs with them everywhere certainly are. Then there are the people who so clearly regret getting a dog, as they completely ignore their animal on an obligatory walk while spaced out on their phone. It's sad. Few dog owners get a dog for the right reasons. |
Why do foreigners like sheep so much? |
This resonates with me. I love my cat u conditionally but don't expect unconditional love from him. Actually, it's the same with my kids-- I love them no matter what but I actually do think I have to earn their love (by caring for them, protecting them, etc. -- everything you sign for when you have kids). I think it's strange to expect/demand unconditional love from a creature who is totally dependent on you. |
Because most of them are mentally unstable. |