For people saying they care about body count

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Folks there is nothing good about a high body count. We need to stop normalizing sinful behavior. Having sex with anyone other than your spouse is a sin. Please repent. There is a day of judgment.


The “sin” (or rather tragedy) is treating yourself and others as “objects” instead of as the amazing embodied spirits we are. Let’s talk about lovers not “body count.” There is no sin in connecting and experiencing pleasure with others. Xoxo

God has commanded us to experience sexual pleasure only with our spouses within marriage. Anything outside of that is a sin. Need to repent. There is a day of judgment
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:People who genuinely really like sex don't fixate so much on this. Women have an average number of seven partners in their lifetime. That's healthy and normal.


I’ve always been an overachiever.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
This is such a bizarre claim. I can't think of a faith-based conviction about this that I have ever heard expressed in terms that make it sound like number of partners would be material. None of the faiths with this conviction have a rider clause for "if you only did it with one person it doesn't count" or w/ev it is you are picturing.


Many Christian religions teach that sex outside of marriage is a sin. Starting there, a person who believes this tenet would care how many partners a potential mate has had since it indicates the potential mate's adherence to this tenet.

For example, Larla is dating Larry. Larry has told Larla that he believes the same principles of faith that Larla does (including the tenet that sex outside of marriage is a sin.) Larla asks Larry how many partners he has had. His reply, "I had one, my wife" (and Larry is dating because he is a widower), indicates a greater adherence to this tenet than a reply of "I had 20 before I married, and 15 more after my wife passed." Asking this question allows Larla to consider how Larry has applied this tenet to his life.

I think you are confused about who the number of partners is material to. However, your post is poorly written it is hard to tell. In a religion that believes that sex outside of marriage is a sin, each act of having sex in this way is a sin. And more sin would be worse than less sin.



NP. And this is an example of a well-written sentence? I’m actually laughing over here.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Oh like me? I’m crushed. But I wasn’t judging anyone based on their sexual partners.

You, however, did with your asinine “rode more than the metro” comment. Watch out kettle, you’re black.


Yes, like you.

You are not judging anyone based on their sexual history because it is a sensitive subject for you, and it is a sensitive subject because you are promiscuous.

Own it, since the people who know you also judge you for it.


DP. I’m judging people based on their sexual history. Fewer people: likely unadventurous and worse in the sack. Would never knowingly sleep with anyone who’d had only one partner.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Folks there is nothing good about a high body count. We need to stop normalizing sinful behavior. Having sex with anyone other than your spouse is a sin. Please repent. There is a day of judgment.


The “sin” (or rather tragedy) is treating yourself and others as “objects” instead of as the amazing embodied spirits we are. Let’s talk about lovers not “body count.” There is no sin in connecting and experiencing pleasure with others. Xoxo

God has commanded us to experience sexual pleasure only with our spouses within marriage. Anything outside of that is a sin. Need to repent. There is a day of judgment


Your god doesn’t apply to me.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Oh like me? I’m crushed. But I wasn’t judging anyone based on their sexual partners.

You, however, did with your asinine “rode more than the metro” comment. Watch out kettle, you’re black.


Yes, like you.

You are not judging anyone based on their sexual history because it is a sensitive subject for you, and it is a sensitive subject because you are promiscuous.

Own it, since the people who know you also judge you for it.


DP. I’m judging people based on their sexual history. Fewer people: likely unadventurous and worse in the sack. Would never knowingly sleep with anyone who’d had only one partner.


The worst ever make out session in my life was with a man who had over 100 partners. Total smash and flash
Anonymous
I’m more interested in how many times someone has had sex - solo and with others. Detailed record keeping is a huuuuggge turn on. Talk to me about frequency and duration, baby.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Folks there is nothing good about a high body count. We need to stop normalizing sinful behavior. Having sex with anyone other than your spouse is a sin. Please repent. There is a day of judgment.


The “sin” (or rather tragedy) is treating yourself and others as “objects” instead of as the amazing embodied spirits we are. Let’s talk about lovers not “body count.” There is no sin in connecting and experiencing pleasure with others. Xoxo

God has commanded us to experience sexual pleasure only with our spouses within marriage. Anything outside of that is a sin. Need to repent. There is a day of judgment


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