You can always try a more inclusive community that values rituals like the Angelicans |
I disagree with a lot of the Church’s actions, but it is really important to me. I found a parish home that focuses way more on social justice and community, I find this is much more relevant to the Gospel than anything else. |
The Catholic church does a lot of good. Why do people always focus only on the bad things that have happened in the church? There are no institutions that have not had bad things happen within the institution. Schools are experiencing a huge crisis with female teachers sexually abusing their students, but I don’t see people here saying they are taking their kids out of public schools because of sexual abuse within the schools. The federal government has basically turned their back on the huge and constant sexual abuse problems within the military. Every institution has problems like that. Children are more likely to be sexually abused by a family member than a priest or teacher.
Every thread here involving the Catholic church focuses exclusively on the problems of the church. I don’t think the church has handled the issue of sexual abuse well at all. They really messed up. They definitely hid the problem and refused to deal with it in a timely and open, honest manner. But there are also many, many positive things the church has done and continues to do. If you are going to withdraw yourself and your kids from the Catholic church because of sexual abuse, are you going to withdraw yourself and your kids from every other institution in America and be consistent because every institution has the same problems and same issues with confronting the issues as the Catholic church did/does. -not a Catholic |
What is the purpose of being a Christian? Why should your teen regard Catholicism as different? What aspects are you sad about? Are you pained about your teen not recognizing the aspects that Luther sought to strip away? I tend to see different denominations as different flavors of the same thing, not completely different movements like Christianity compared to Hinduism. |
PP are you Catholic? I suspect not. Yes both Catholics and Protestants are Christian, but they are very different religions in many ways, especially culturally. |
That is a terrible thing to write and absolutely not a Catholic value. The Catholic Church has room and encourages seekers who are trying to figure it out. How are people supposed to figure it out if they aren't welcome to experience God working through an entire community. I feel God's presence differently depending where I am and who I am with (praying alone before sleep vs at a full Mass) but both are meaningful and worthwhile. I urge the OP to continue attending Mass at different parishes until she finds one that feels right. Next, join the parish, volunteer or get involved in an activity- knowing others really deepens the connection bc you are receiving God in communion with others. There is a reason you are feeling called, don't shut that down. God bless you on this journey. |
I’m Catholic and have left (and come back to) the church many times. I believe a spiritual (in my case Christian - it’s what I know) life is important. We had our kids attend Sunday school and get confirmed so they have some personal experience and knowledge of a religious life. They now have a religious “base” if they so choose. My spouse and I let them know that they are welcome to choose whatever religious life they would like, if any, in their adult lives. We feel we prepared them to at least be able to make informed decisions about their own religious choices in their adult lives |
Like what, apostolic succession and praying the rosary? I’ve been both Catholic and Protestant. And while generally speaking I tend to prefer Catholicism, they are not all that different in core beliefs. In terms of rituals there is more variation between Protestants (Pentecostals vs Anglicans) than Catholics and Anglicans. Very odd to feel triggered that your kid who you didn’t raise as a Christian categorizes the Christian sub-groups as Christian. |
Indeed, the religion is premised on the truth that everybody sins. |
Exactly! Catholics are all about the pomp and circumstance and all their rules. They block a person's direct path to Jesus. |
Set them free and never look back. |
How many hours per week do you spend being free from religion, but thinking about religion, discussing religion? You are still enmeshed in religion. Freedom isn’t hatred or obsession, it’s indifference. You are consumed by religion. |
The Catholic church is the only church suing to protect Pedophiles. And your post is utter BS. Most Pediofiles are church members, ie Priests, Pastors, Ministers, pick up a dad newspaper weekly in this country add police officers and religious privates to this list. |
An epidemic of sexual abuse in schools Shoddy investigations, quiet resignations, and a culture of secrecy have protected predators, not students. A Business Insider investigation puts a spotlight on an epidemic of sexual abuse in high schools. Thousands of documents show how predator teachers are repeatedly protected instead of students. And there's little oversight on how school districts deal with offenders, my colleague reports. https://www.businessinsider.com/teachers-predators-sexual-abuse-high-school-reporting-data-2023-12?amp Do actual research yourself. |
someone wrote: "Not sure why you want to raise you children in something that automatically says they were born in sin."
I'll answer this as an atheist Like Dawkins' says, we are selfish little multicellular creatures who always look out for #1 first, the same as all life on earth. It's about survival...and then if we get time, procreation. ANd if you believe there is a such a thing as evil, as you almost have to in order to survive, you have to look at that lion about to eat you as evil. Then selfishness is the root of all evil, cuz isn't that lion being selfish to eat me. He's just trying to survive too. So yes, original sin is simply the fact that we are born selfish life forms, and we spend the rest of our lives trying to teach our kids not be selfish...they got to share, they got to be nice, c'mon you dirty rug rat, it's called empathy and I'll force you to learn it etc. |