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There’s one secret: be thin. Being thin makes what looks fashionable much easier. |
+1, though also ironing, using a lint roller, choosing clothes mostly in neutral colors, accessorizing with well made (and sometimes more expensive) accessories, and other tricks also help. But being thin helps the most. It is particularly useful in making inexpensive clothes hang/fit well, as most inexpensive brands don't fit larger bodies as well. |
Avoid synthetic fabrics.
Buy fewer things and instead spend money to get items tailored to your body. Read care labels and launder items appropriately, plus steam or press as needed. Stay away from prints. Pay attention to proportions. If you wear something loose on the bottom, try to balance with a fitted top and vice versa. Most shirts look better tucked in to show off the waist. Clothing should be in a color palette that’s flattering to you. Inspect pieces before buying to ensure the fabric is on grain, seams are flat, etc. Nice accessories and shoes make inexpensive clothing look better. Spend money on real leather belts, bags, and shoes and nice jewelry. |
I have an 80 year old aunt who always looks fabulous. She is about 5'9" and on a good day is probably a size 18. She shops at places like TJ Maxx and J Jill. She knows the colors and styles that suit her and everything she wears is freshly ironed. She has good hair.
The most important thing perhaps is that freshly irons everything she wears. |
I hate to say this but thin people can make everything look good! ( I’m not one of them ) . |
Mix cheap with good quality and always wear clothes that fit and flatter you, that you like and feel confident in. You dont need designer clothes but buy the best you can afford. Buy on sale and clearance. Buy from anywhere if it works. I think this works better than head to toe anything, expensive or cheap. Have a good haircut/color. Only accessorize if you are confident doing so but try new accessories. Sometimes the right necklace or bracelet can level up the outfit. Per Hannibal Lector, don't look like a rube with your "good purse and your cheap shoes." (Kidding). |
Oversized blazer looks good on almost no one, even influencers and people with model proportions. Part of this is buying styles that look more classic and then the price tag / brand is less obvious. |
Being really thin. |
People always say tailoring, but tailoring is expensive! How much are you all spending on this? And at what price level is it worth tailoring something?
OP is talking about items from H&M - the tailoring would cost more than the clothes... |
I really disagree with this unless you have a great body. Otherwise it's very unforgiving. The shirts that were actually shaped with a waist (like the typical shirts of 10 yrs ago) were very flattering. Today you have to tuck because everything is shapeless. |
It is worth it, honestly. It doesn't mean take a cheap H&M blazer and have it torn apart then remade to fit you exactly. But, like, get your pants hemmed if that half an inch will make them look and feel right. Have the blazer sleeve taken up just a bit. I just had some shirts cropped a bit because they were *just* too long - these were madewell shirts I got off eBay, and now they look great. Not that you want to dress like me - you don't - but it is worth spending that money on tailoring, I think. Instead of buying a bunch of stuff from H&M that you think isn't even worth being tailored, go to the consignment shop and buy some stuff that you think is worth getting tailored. |
Or just lose 20 lbs. Everything looks better on skinny people. Sorry , but that's the harsh truth. |
Maybe but as someone 5 ft tall and a size 6, no matter what I pay I have to get it tailored. |
No, "good nails" don't make any difference. |