How to protect or teach your son's to avoid Crazy Girls like Jackie

[Anonymous]

After reading the story about Jackie I was thinking, how could a smart and intelligent girl get into one of the TOP schools in the country and be crazy.

I am planning to use this as a teaching experience to my sons on how to weed out potential crazy mates. Just because the person is intelligent doesn't mean she may be flawed.

[Anonymous]

First teach him that son's is not the correct form for your title.

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:First teach him that son's is not the correct form for your title.

Thanks will do, anything constructive to add in regards to the subject?

From reading the post article, I would tell them to avoid women that make up stories are pretend someone exists in an effort to make someone jealous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:First teach him that son's is not the correct form for your title.

Thanks will do, anything constructive to add in regards to the subject?

From reading the post article, I would tell them to avoid women that make up stories AND pretend someone exists in an effort to make someone jealous.

[Anonymous]

I dated a woman or two like this in my time. I think the trick is to get as much "evidence" to protect yourself from a false claim. Save text messages, make sure others are around when possible (not during the act.... but in my case I lived with housemates so they saw us leave and enter the house and saw she was not distraught) as witnesses.

It's hard to detect the crazy ones right off the bat -- in my experience, they get crazy over time, and that level ratchets up as you lose interest in them due to their craziness.

[Anonymous]

Teach him not to rape and not to believe hysteria over false rape reports. Your son has about as much chance of being falsely accused of rape as he does of being falsely accused of mugging someone in the street. So I wouldnt worry about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Teach him not to rape and not to believe hysteria over false rape reports. Your son has about as much chance of being falsely accused of rape as he does of being falsely accused of mugging someone in the street. So I wouldnt worry about it.

Teach them not to rape? This is such a dumb statement of course everyone does but the issue is in cases where false allegation occur and it appears from this situation mental issues can be the source of these allegations.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Teach him not to rape and not to believe hysteria over false rape reports. Your son has about as much chance of being falsely accused of rape as he does of being falsely accused of mugging someone in the street. So I wouldnt worry about it.

no, there have been several unfortunate (and thankfully well-publicized) stories about this in the last few years. It is becoming increasingly common.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Teach him not to rape and not to believe hysteria over false rape reports. Your son has about as much chance of being falsely accused of rape as he does of being falsely accused of mugging someone in the street. So I wouldnt worry about it.

So very, very wrong. Either you don't have a son or you're just incredibly naive.

And while we're on the subject of hysteria, read the paper lately? We had weeks of the reports themselves; now we're having weeks of debunking (both UVa and Lena Dunham). A lot of the defenders have been much quieter in these forums lately.

[Anonymous]

Watch out for women who are bi polar and act very different when drunk and sober

[Anonymous]

Yes the rape charge is very common. Laws must be past to punish these women. Maybe jail time and sterilization?

[Anonymous]

Actually for the OP, I was curious about the challenges men faced after the Duke Lacrosse case. My SO had also mentioned how a guy he knew down the hall freshman year, his ex gf had showed up wearing lingerie, had sex with him, and then later accused him of rape. The budding star athlete was expelled. I found this book which proved very useful for guys in general:

http://www.amazon.com/Avoid-Getting-Screwed-When-Volume/dp/0615327478

It points out signs that a woman is crazy.

It also points out things like to avoid false rape accusations, take the girl out for a meal to somewhere where there are video cameras so there is video evidence.

So politically correct or not, this book is a good one to gift a young man about to go to college.

[Anonymous]

Live your life with integrity, tell the truth and treat women with respect and take responsibility for your own actions. Don't lie.

You can't prevent people from making false claims about you. But if you have been honest and have nothing to hide - that will come through.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes the rape charge is very common. Laws must be past to punish these women. Maybe jail time and sterilization?

well that’s not funny - but there is a Virginia statute that mass it a criminal offense to make a false rape claim.
I wonder if this explains why Jackie has hired a lawyer?