Do you think that its rude for neither parent to stay home to hand out candy?
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Anonymous
| Our youngest still needs to be carried, so both DH and i plan to take them trick-or-treating. But even next year i think we would still all go together. Is that rude for no one to answer the door? |
Anonymous
| No. Just leave a bowl and sign out front. You can hand out candy to the late-comers when you get back. |
Anonymous
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Not rude. First, there are still tons of houses that have candy. And you can also leave out a bowl. A lot of houses that we visited last year did that. If you don't leave out some candy, turn off the lights so it's clear to the kids that your house is not participating.
Besides, a very little one won't be out long, so you'll still be home to see a lot of the trick-or-treaters. |
Anonymous
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No, just leave all the lights off.
Or do what I'm planning to do - leave a big bowl of candy out so kids can help themselves. |
Anonymous
| I'm a single parent. I'm taking my DD out and not at all worried that nobody will be home. |
Anonymous
| Leave a bowl out. That' pretty common. |
Anonymous
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Yes, except for single parent case. If everyone did this it would be no fun for the kids. Someone needs to suck it up and stay home.
If your child still needs to be carried, bring a stroller or wagon |
Anonymous
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Yes it's very rude unless single parent.
One parent should hand out candy. You can't just take without giving back. |
Anonymous
| Rude. Have spouse take child, then come home and you can take the child. Selfish bitch. |
Anonymous
| OP here - glad so many people said it was okay. I think both DH and i want to be with our kids, even as they get older. But i was worried with so many people saying that one parent stayed home to hand out candy. I dont want to miss out! Will do the bowl! |
Anonymous
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Of course you don't want to miss out,
The parents who take responsibility want to miss out. |
Anonymous
| OP here - well the tide seems to be turning on the responses. I will wait to see more responses and perhaps rethink our strategy. |
Anonymous
| If your you test needs to be carried why does he or she need to trick or treat. Why doesn't the little one hand out candy with one parent? |
Anonymous
That is supposed to say your youngest. |
Anonymous
Because mom is a princess that can't miss a single second of spending time with precious. It's all about her and she prefers they all go out as a family. To hell with the other kids out there. Because I like staying home and handing out candy to your kid. |