Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This thread is more revealing about the PPs than the OP. So, people with large families are irrational? Simple minded? Are people with small families just judgemental and rude?
I'm not the OP, but was the child in a large family. It was a great experience and to this day, I feel like I know more about sharing, teamwork, and looking for the common good than my peers. I didn't have a lot of kids because that was just my choice, but why would I judge someone who chose differently?
OP, my question is: do you have some kind of system to have one-on-one time with each child? My parents found that the biggest challenge.
I'm just wondering why any woman would choose to undergo multiple pregnancies. Knowing what it does to one's body, it seems like an unnecessary hardship. I mean, I can understand huge families in the past,
what with infant mortality, but I don't get it in this day and age.