I know one mom from son's team whose son sat the bench almost the whole game, but yet posted a picture of him stating he led the team to victory. So strange... |
There’s a mom who posts non stop about her college son’s participation on a D1 sports team and how great it is to be a part of that “family.” She goes to many of the events and the after-event parties. Meanwhile the son is the volunteer videographer/statistician and not an actual team member. |
Why not? My two younger kids (Gen z 18) aren’t on FB and do not want us to post anything about them. So we don’t. At least not explicitly. It’s easy for close friends to interpret a check-in or spot a college sweatshirt in a photo without tagging or naming our kids. However our older kids (Millenial early 30s) like it when we post about their accomplishments. |
I think so and also they don't feel comfortable just announcing this stuff to their friends and family IRL so they put it on FB instead. I really can't wrap my brain around those who literally try to talk to dead people on FB, typically dead people who weren't ever on FB much less who are reading it now. I think it's mostly older people who are trying to figure out what social media is actually for and how they fit into it. |
Ok and? Are you people so miserable you can't be happy for anyone? |
I do it to for keepsakes. Like a timeline Although I hardly post anymore |
The bolded seems the truest of all your examples. Pretty much everyone can name a divorced couple in their circle who made a habit of excessively posting about their amazing marriage. Isn't it a cliche that people renew their wedding vows right before separating? LOL I don't necessarily agree about the other examples tho. Maybe you are just surrounded by more conceited people. |
Volunteer? He should be getting paid for that. |
When DS was little, I used to post a Happy Birthday message on SM. He loved to see all the replies wishing him a HBD. He's a tween now and I'm pretty sure would be horrified if I still did that. |
It's part of the performance parenting that has taken over our culture. Doesn't bother me but I don't participate. In fact I only congratulate or praise my kids when they accomplish something noteworthy. My daughter wanted a present for her elementary school graduation and I told her no. Graduating from elementary school is a requirement and she didn't accomplish anything. The posts are more for the parents. If you enjoy it go for it. But in general it's a waste of time |
Then why are they on your friends list? Oh, because you love to be nosey. |
You read waaaay too much into a FB post. |
My kids are 11 and 7. I post about them - though less about the 11 year old these days. And I’ll definitely say “so proud of Larla for working really hard with her team this season” or whatever. I do it for any of the reasons mentioned: I’m extroverted and like feeling connected (and like seeing similar posts on other people’s feeds), I like the memories in my timeline, and like feeling like I’m sharing updates with certain people (relatives) without having to contact them each individually as often. |
+1 those are two very valuable skills |
I do the same, I love getting the memories. I actually will post things totally private so I can have it somewhere when things happen. |