Sophomore in college feels sad/alone

[Anonymous]

When my DS was in this situation, he found it helpful to get an on-campus job (at the campus fitness center). This kept him busy 10-12 hours per week, and meant he had stuff to do and a way to meet people. He offered to work the evening shifts.

[Anonymous]

I second the part time job idea. It brings you into contact with different people and even if they don’t become friends, the distraction of being busy, around people, and having a regular schedule will make her think less about feeling lonely.

[Anonymous]

Again, this is why the Greek system is a good idea, for all types of kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Again, this is why the Greek system is a good idea, for all types of kids.

Until they get cut

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Again, this is why the Greek system is a good idea, for all types of kids.

Until they get cut

they don't generally get "cut" from all houses in formal rush, the girls just get attitudes that they are "too good" for whatever sorority that wants them and they drop out.

[Anonymous]

Op - The year is almost over so can you book her with her local doctor for a checkup and perhaps a screening for depression. She came of age in high school and experienced Covid, so like many of her peers, the social scene and skills sets different for this cohort of students. You can enjoy your classes, be busy with activities and know folks, but not have a sense of attachment to real friends. It might help to see a therapist and share how she is doing and perhaps develop some insights on what she can do to change the situation.

Does she have a summer routine which will give her the chance to connect with h.s. friends and/or have a job or internship which will get her out an meeting new folks. Sort of practicing some social skills that will help her when she returns to school.