No but our insurance covers a lot of his fee. Once you go for a while weekly he says that he spaces out visits, we're not at that point yet. You could ask for codes and run them by your insurance to check. The coverage rate was different for the consult I think than the regular therapy. Since he is teaching you the techniques to work with the child to build the lagging skills he likes both parents to be there at the end of the sessions. I think he can do things like Skype but can't remember exactly. For us it's worth it as long as we can swing it, we'd tried so many other things with no benefit. We also like the idea that he is very available by phone. |
I'm the mom who uses a reward system. I hated the idea and judged people who used them. Until I had a child with ADHD (impulsive and hyperactive). |
Dumb question - where do you get the marbles? My kid is super tactile and likes stuff like that, just not sure where to buy. Thanks.
I also was opposed to such things but am caving after the 3rd doc recommended it for DD. I am going to struggle not to want to take them away but I was told to only use them in a positive way. |
OP,
I think you need to go to someone good for an eval. I've heard good things about Pam Compart, who is a DAN doc and Karen Belsito (sp?) a dev ped. We saw Dr. Conlon, but I understand he is leaving his practice and going to Kaiser. I think it can be tricky to sort out with a kid like yours, see if anyone on the SN board can recommend a doc who might do school observations. You may want to try to get into the NIMH ADHD study as well. The clinicians are usually very good at spotting issues. |
You can find marbles at any decent toy store, like Childs Play. I do a variation on this system using those fake gold coins -- got them at Party City. |
Really? Because in your original post you said you didn't know where to start and questioned whether you should see a psychologist. |
Thank you! We have a 5 year old DS with similar issues. I will try to implement some of your suggestions. So glad that this worked for you. Good job, Mom! |
NP here, but but pp, can you continue to try to be helpful and not play gotcha? This is such a painful issue for so many parents--and not all kids that are like this are necessarily SN. This is really a general parenting issue for a lot of us. Really ease up with the accusations--not cool. |
Op here, thank you pp. I was ignoring the nasty pp who is clearly just bored and/or and ass.
Initially we went to the psych it was for aspergers, since it led nowhere I was thinking maybe a different approach, maybe ADHD, psychiatrist as opposed to psych. Plus, since I was writing my original post as I was crying maybe I wasn't being very clear. I think some people like to kick others when they are down, maybe it makes them feel superior or something. |
NP here. I think the pp was wondering because it seems like early intervention is key and you would know that. |
OP, how does your son sleep? I have a good friend whose 5yo son has similar issues, and he has always had trouble sleeping. It has a big impact on his behavior, so if you haven't investigated his sleeping, that is worth a shot. Also, her son has serious issues with anxiety, so that's another possibility, instead of ADHD. |
PP. I should add that I have a 6yo with similar issues, but not as severe (at the moment - knock wood!), so I totally get your frustration and sadness. The book Setting Limits with Your Spirited Child has helped us a lot. |
I do understand that, but like I said we went to a psych and it really led nowhere. She thought the best thing to do was wait it out and see if he either matured out of it or if it got worse. Clearly he has gotten worse, but it no longer is looking so much like aspergers. Or if it is ASD it is mild enough that his kindergarten teacher and special Ed teacher were not worried (and they are with him all day every day-special Ed teacher is in the room for someone else but still see him interact with others) |
My ADHD/anxious child is off-the-charts rigid and can be pretty literal, too. There can be overlap with these neuro disorders and sometimes they are comorbid. I strongly recommend working with a child psychologist and getting a neuropsych exam.Go to Special Needs Board for recommendations. |
What were the concerns of the preschool teacher? The rigidity and sensory issues MAY be due to AS, kids with AS typically have attention and impulsivity issues (ADHD symptoms) as well. I'm not sure why you haven't contacted the original psychologist who did the eval? Seems like the best place to start. If you have AS and ADHD in the family and previous teachers expressed concern then I don't get why you say you have no idea what is going on. |