Not PP, but nannies don’t do sick care for more time than it takes for you to get home from work. They also don’t have medical POA so your care provider doesn’t want to deal with them. If this is too much for your career to handle occasionally, don’t have children. |
This. |
Sounds good! |
That's advice for OP's DH. OP, let him see you reading "All the Rage" by Darcy Lockman and Lyz Lenz's "This American Ex-Wife: How I Ended My Marriage and Started My Life." Explain that his actions tell you how much he values you and how committed a parent he is, so you're figuring out how to deal with that. My nest is empty and my inclination to spend time with my husband is pretty darned low, thanks to years of him not listening to my calm statements of fact about the division of labor in our family. |
This. The only way my husband really learned how to manage the kids was by me leaving for 5 days to go to a work conference. He didn't bail because he actually couldn't. His parenting completely leveled up. I go away for a week about once a year for some work-related reason, and it always reinforces it. |