Totally agree with this. DD and I have discussed this a lot and how it feels as if no one has grit and resilience anymore. Some therapists over emphasize validation of feelings, yet don’t tackle the other side of the equation which is how to move forward. |
People have forgotten that it's ok to feel feelings.
Being sad doesn't mean you're depressed. Being nervous before a big event doesn't mean you have anxiety. |
Omg I feel this. My kid did a sloppy, illegible job on his homework and I rather sternly told him to start over with a fresh piece of paper. Cue the meltdown "My feelings are hurt and you're not being kind". I felt guilty too! But I decided I'm channeling my inner tiger mom. |
See, I don’t think making a kid redo something that’s illegible is tiger momming! I also told him he is not the best on his soccer team (because he was bragging and he just started playing) and he said his feelings were hurt and I couldn’t say that. Sheesh. I remember when classmates would just straight up say “You’re dumb” and we and adults would all brush it off because kids do say these little things. I think it’s mean but normal. If it’s happening a lot, sure but one comment I think is not the end of the world and not bullying. |
Schools - especially in FCPS and MoCo, are way overdoing it with their mental health outreach:
https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1203651.page |
When you see an article like this, you google the person's name and keywords relevant to the study. Found NIH abstract and sciencedirect full paper in seconds. I'm a person who thinks mass media articles about court proceedings (especially in the Age of Trump) should when possible link to the filing, and articles about some study somewhere should provide a little more specific information to make it easier to locate the study. But usually it's not that hard to find the study, digging to find a court filing is harder. |