My kids are a little older - middle school. My 8th grader took it all in stride. My 7th grader - not so much. He’s struggling a lot with all of the online stuff - I know he would have been better off with paper, writing stuff down, physical books, etc.
He tests well so knows the material - but the Canvas and Clever and Google Docs and whatever is just a lot for him to manage. He would have been fine with notebooks and paper. |
Your age group was probably the best group with the least impact. I know that is not the answer you were looking for.
I think parents with kids who are behind always want to find a reason. Most kids your kids’ ages are doing fine with no issues. |
Mine are in 6th and 8th grade now and are accelerated 2-3 yrs ahead. I think it is a direct result of pandemic. I homeschooled them for a year and a half. It made me realize how little public schools actually do. They are back to school, but we still heavily supplement at home. If you leave 100% of your child’s education up the school system, you will likely be disappointed. Including recognizing disabilities or learning problems. |
My kids are in 7th and 9th and I also realized how little they learned. They were in 3rd and 5th when school shut down. OP’s kids were probably in first. I have a current first grader. She is reading early chapter books and easy math. All OP needed to do is get books from the library, order some math workbooks online. This is a very easy fun grade. |
I just reread that OP has a child with learning disabilities so I apologize. I have friends whose kids were flagged and get supports and it is still frustrating and difficult for them. If it makes you feel better, the kids got little to no support during the pandemic. My friend’s daughter has speech therapy online, which was just hard for my friend since the child had no attention span. Then they went in person with a mask so also unhelpful. |
Socially/behaviorally, I think the issues are a result of the screen generation of parenting. Some kids are totally and completely screen addicted at shockingly young ages. Parents can't run into Target for 15 minutes without handing the kid a phone. The amount of kids using their computers at inappropriate school times is high. Defiance/ignoring of teachers is also high.
I work in an ES across multiple grades. |
Agree |
Yep. My kids (8th graders) call these ipad kids (generally 4th and below). |
Same. I think the younger ones are more mature than the older ones where at the same age. |
Learning disabilities are not generally flagged by schools till 2-3. If you knew your child was struggling you need to get them help. We taught at home long before Covid. |
Schools don’t teach spelling, grammar, math facts. Parents have to do it. |
You are very wise. I agree with you 100%. We still have relaxed expectations in my public school district due to Covid. Why? I am a parent sitting on district committees and nobody can quickly summarize the degree to which we are still impacted by the pandemic learning loss. The chromebooks are 100% now but the kids aren't learning more/better and the teachers are very inconsistent with the learning management/grade portal. And there is epidemic use of phones in class for non-schoolwork purposes. As a parent, I've allowed too much screen usage. But not sure what to do about it. My kids are doing reasonably well in school. I just wished their free time was better spent. |
My DS is in 5th and for him I think his handwriting is the only thing that has suffered. He wouldn’t have otherwise been using a laptop to do work in 2nd grade when that skill was really developing. We supplemented from the summer after 1st through the middle of 3rd with small group tutoring, I think that made a huge difference and has paid off in his math and reading.
I think a lot of the issues, regardless of grade, is that parents and adults were greatly affected more than we realize and it’s trickled down to kids. |
It was really hard for current 5th graders to get testing in 2nd or 3rd because of Covid. Schools weren't doing testing or IEPs. Totally not legal, but that's what happened where I was. Private testing was hard to get too and tutoring was virtual or with masks. A lot of parents didn't have the skills to help their kid. It was a mess. |
My 5th grader and her friends seem largely unaffected. It hard to know for sure of course, but they’ve been amazingly resilient.
My 1st grader (turned 3 in Feb 2020) who missed 18 months of preschool has behavioral challenges and the teacher says there’s a lot of it in their classroom. Again, hard to know for sure, but the shutdown seems to have a bigger effect there. It was also hard to know if delays (potty training, speech, focus) were typical absent peers so we didn’t really flag some of her problems until later. |