We live in Hollywood and my Dh is convinced Johnny Depp DID abuse Amber Heard

[Anonymous]

You live in Hollywood? I’ve never heard someone who actually lives in LA describe it like that. “Hi, I’m Larla and I’m from Hollywood.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They were both abusive to each other. She however, goaded him into it. I don't think if he were sober he'd abuse anyone.

Everyone is responsible for their own behavior, not the behavior of others. If he abused her, it was because he chose to do so.

This. When people say stuff like "she goaded him into it" I find it unsettling. Can you be goaded into hitting your spouse? Your kids? If I was with someone who baited me that way, I would just leave.

Also, while they both seemed to have been terrible to each other generally, when it comes to physical abuse, it matters that he was bigger and much older. It's just a fact that if you are much more physically dominant, it's worse when you hit the other person. People get hit by their kids all the time and that sucks but people who are not abusers understand-- you can't just retaliate, you can hurt them a lot more than they hurt you. You have to walk away.

Also it's nuts that people are using his substance abuse issues as an excuse. No. If you're a mean drunk or beat your wife when you're on drugs, you're still abusive. It absolves you of nothing.

[Anonymous]

I agree with your husband. Depp is the abuser.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They’re both nasty nut jobs who abused one another. No one’s hands are clean in this case.

+1. Too much drugs and alcohol. Too much drama. They are not a good combo.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds to be that they both had issues so it is hard to say which one was more abusive than the other

This. They’re both abusers and Johnny Depp is a disgusting, addict.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They were both abusive to each other. She however, goaded him into it. I don't think if he were sober he'd abuse anyone.

Everyone is responsible for their own behavior, not the behavior of others. If he abused her, it was because he chose to do so.

This. When people say stuff like "she goaded him into it" I find it unsettling. Can you be goaded into hitting your spouse? Your kids? If I was with someone who baited me that way, I would just leave.

Also, while they both seemed to have been terrible to each other generally, when it comes to physical abuse, it matters that he was bigger and much older. It's just a fact that if you are much more physically dominant, it's worse when you hit the other person. People get hit by their kids all the time and that sucks but people who are not abusers understand-- you can't just retaliate, you can hurt them a lot more than they hurt you. You have to walk away.

Also it's nuts that people are using his substance abuse issues as an excuse. No. If you're a mean drunk or beat your wife when you're on drugs, you're still abusive. It absolves you of nothing.

Johnny tried to walk away during some of the fights. She wouldn't let him. She would block the door, push him, make threats. You really should listen to the recordings to get the full picture of who she was. Women can absolutely physical assault, harm and kill a man. Women are adults, not children.

[Anonymous]

Did your hubby see the soiled bed sheets?

[Anonymous]

I find Depp more likely to have been the aggressor and his popularity after the trial is gross

[Anonymous]

I think she started it and he fought back and she played the victim but they were both a toxic mess

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:but I do not believe it I think she was the abuser who set him up
what do you think?

Her being abusive doesn’t mean he wasn’t.

It was a toxic relationship and they were both abusive.

[Anonymous]

I think both were abusive. They had a toxic marriage. Normal healthy people do not behave like them.

[Anonymous]

What is the significance of your living in Hollywood?

[Anonymous]

They are both disgusting drug users and insane.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is the significance of your living in Hollywood?

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