Can a woman in her late thirties be marriage material?

[Anonymous]

I think you have great chances of finding someone and building a family, but if you have the financial means, freeze your eggs now. Why not help your odds of getting the future you want.

[Anonymous]

Besides genetic abnormalities, risk of a variety of other conditions, like autism, increases significantly with geriatric pregnancies. Please don't have biological children, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think you have great chances of finding someone and building a family, but if you have the financial means, freeze your eggs now. Why not help your odds of getting the future you want.

Yes, if you want to have your own kids, this is the only responsible way to do it.

[Anonymous]

You want a kid, not a husband.

Act accordingly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just got out of a marriage with my soon to be ex whom I met in my twenties and tried desperately to make it work with for the past 10 years.

I am devastated but I always wanted to be married and have a family. I just picked the wrong one who developed mental health issues and dragged me down with him.

Will anyone still consider me marriage material?

I am classy, physically fit and considered moderately attractive. I love to cook, decorate, play with my nieces and travel. I also love to workout and decorate.

I am looking for a good quality man who wants a wife and a family.

Look for divorced guys who found lemons like you did. Aim for ones with kids so if you can't have any, its no big deal.

Terrible advice. Avoid the ones with kids. Date men with no kids who want to try but won’t be devastated if it doesn’t work out. Have your own kids or make peace with having no kids. Getting in the middle of another couple’s kids and an ex spouse can be pure hell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You want a kid, not a husband.

Act accordingly.

She doesn't have a time machine.

[Anonymous]

target 45-55

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:target 45-55

Not if she wants kids. But she really shouldn't.

[Anonymous]

Just get a donor and go the single mom route.

Easy peasey.

[Anonymous]

my aunt was 45 when she met her 40 y/o partner. did ivf and they have a son now. the comments saying you need to date 10+ years older are ridiculous.

if you're late 30's, date mid 30's to mid 40s men. better to have someone closer your age to grow old with and for them to be in their child's life longer/more actively.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just got out of a marriage with my soon to be ex whom I met in my twenties and tried desperately to make it work with for the past 10 years.

I am devastated but I always wanted to be married and have a family. I just picked the wrong one who developed mental health issues and dragged me down with him.

Will anyone still consider me marriage material?

I am classy, physically fit and considered moderately attractive. I love to cook, decorate, play with my nieces and travel. I also love to workout and decorate.

I am looking for a good quality man who wants a wife and a family.

You made a bad choice and constantly made bad choices to stay there year after year until you turned 37. What makes you so confident that you'll make a better choice now on rebound with a ticking biological clock. Foster puppies, travel, do charity work, take up fun hobbies, enjoy your freedom and your money.