Good lesson for the kids to learn. |
Is this a DC area school? |
OP thinks its beneath her to socialize with a teacher. You know the old saying, "I don't want to belong to any club that would accept me as one of its members." |
Have you not seen the news re Clarence Thomas? As a federal employee, I have to report these sorts of things....he didn't (hoever, I'm not sure if he was asked to do so in the same way my agency does) |
brilliant! |
Huh? I'm pretty certain the STA, NCS, SFS boards all have parents that belong to prestigious clubs and organizations.... |
Sorry this happened but I have to say - it sucks for the rest of us parents - when we are either "treated as if we are" or "assumed to be" like THAT parent. I'm so tired of admins or teachers assuming the worst...(and I hardly engage with teachers/admin). |
Omgggg are you the same person who posted a few days ago, SUPER bent out of shape that your kid’s teacher could afford Golden Goose’s when you can’t? |
This is weird AF. I don't care what clubs anyone belongs to - where they summer - or who they socialize with outside of school. I would never assume that someone favors someone else's kid because they belong to the same country club. |
One of my kids’ teachers is also a member at our country club. Once my kid got over the initial “OMG my teacher is a human who exists outside of school!” awkwardness it was all totally cool. I’m betting this teacher does not particularly love seeing us outside of school (although we only ever exchange pleasantries and never talk about school). lol being at the same club is probably working against us. |
Maybe you should engage once in awhile. I am sure teachers are tired of those parents. |
Yes. |
Hmmm, I understand PPs point. I am a teacher, and I have worked with "those parents". I have also seen how defensive teachers / admin can be. Parents need to partner more /project less .. teachers need to not be defensive or make it about themselves. Obviously Im describing when relationships go wrong, but I worry that "worry about being that parent or assumptions/hostility that your kid got that teacher" can inhibit honest conversation to the benefit of the student. |
I understand both sides too and agree that engagement is key. A parent who engages positively with teachers, one on one, won’t be seen as THAT parent by a teacher, even one accustomed to dealing with THOSE parents. If you “hardly” engage with people who care for and teach your children every day, you aren’t helping to create the most positive experience for all. |
This. I use my club for golf, an occasional meal and family time. Not to conspire with school admins. |