guys are so weird

[Anonymous]

last night i went on a date with this guy, he was ok looking a bit chubby but had a great personality and he is really smart, we like the same things and our life experiences are similar. He knows some of the people that I know because we are in the same field. I was flirty, he was flirty. We went for drinks and it turned out into late dinner, great conversation, he walked me to the metro and we kissed. The date was a good date overall, so i thought. Usually after a good date the guy will text me that night, no text last night, no text this am, so I went against my rules and I texted him around 10am, no response. ugh...I dont understand, we had a good night, I know he thinks I am attractive and he is not that attactive, so why is he acting this way? anyways, whatever...moving on, but i am tired of this stupid game.

[Anonymous]

You sound like a child.

[Anonymous]

Maybe it may have something to do with how full you are of yourself.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he has a job, where responding to your text is not an option? Maybe he read on this forum that you consider him to be unattractive?

[Anonymous]

you didn't follow The Rules. Reap what you sow.

[Anonymous]

Rules say he should chase.

Probably, they're right.

My ex-GF drove down from NJ to DC after the first date for the second date. Broke all the rules, right?

Now she's my last ex-GF and my wife.

[Anonymous]

Excuse me? Maybe you should wait until you graduate from high school before you date again. Perhaps this guy went home, turned off the phone and went to bed. Today, he is at work. Some people do not do personal business at work or maybe he's just having a busy day, you know meetings, phone calls...work? And , yet, 4-5 hours into the next work day and you're ready to give up and move on? If you're that insecure that you need to have validation that soon after a date, then maybe he's lucky that you're ready to move on.

If that happened 3 days ago, then I can see your anxiety, but barely 12 hours after you left him? *sigh*

[Anonymous]

Maybe, because he takes girls on such great dates and seems to be a pretty nice guy for you to be thirsting this bad over his non-response, he actually has better options than you. Maybe the fact that he's not as attractive as you doesn't even matter. Maybe you thought the date was great and he thought you were insufferable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:last night i went on a date with this guy, he was ok looking a bit chubby but had a great personality and he is really smart, we like the same things and our life experiences are similar. He knows some of the people that I know because we are in the same field. I was flirty, he was flirty. We went for drinks and it turned out into late dinner, great conversation, he walked me to the metro and we kissed. The date was a good date overall, so i thought. Usually after a good date the guy will text me that night, no text last night, no text this am, so I went against my rules and I texted him around 10am, no response. ugh...I dont understand, we had a good night, I know he thinks I am attractive and he is not that attactive, so why is he acting this way? anyways, whatever...moving on, but i am tired of this stupid game.

Guys with good personalities who are smart and fun do not grow on trees so why do you think he believes that he is not that attractive. Maybe he looks in the mirror and sees a terrific person who will someday make someone very happy.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he didn't want to appear over eager so he didn't text you last night and maybe he doesn't turn his cell phone on at work which is why he hasn't responded to your texts.

Or maybe, he didn't have as good of a time as you did on the date.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he didn't like the way you kissed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:last night i went on a date with this guy, he was ok looking a bit chubby but had a great personality and he is really smart, we like the same things and our life experiences are similar. He knows some of the people that I know because we are in the same field. I was flirty, he was flirty. We went for drinks and it turned out into late dinner, great conversation, he walked me to the metro and we kissed. The date was a good date overall, so i thought. Usually after a good date the guy will text me that night, no text last night, no text this am, so I went against my rules and I texted him around 10am, no response. ugh...I dont understand, we had a good night, I know he thinks I am attractive and he is not that attactive, so why is he acting this way? anyways, whatever...moving on, but i am tired of this stupid game.

I'm gonna guess that it has something to do with your personality.

[Anonymous]

You might be attractive but he probably thinks that you have a shitty personality.

[Anonymous]

I'm a man and by reading your post, I can assume that you made sure that he knew that you were more attractive than him and that you were doing him a favor. He's not stupid. Have fun playing the "stupid game".

[Anonymous]

I find it interesting that such an attractive woman is frustrated by not getting a text by 10am the next day after a late night.

I really doubt that OP is attractive.