Okay, so it can be split. How does that change the fact that it is capped and wouldn’t get more than one child though a 4 year school? Sure, if everything lines up and the parent wants to invite the additional service obligation ONE kid could get their degree fully paid. But it’s certainly not as simple as proclaiming that “military children get free college.” That’s not true anywhere near universally. |
+1. Totally agree. The PP makes it sound like military children just walk up to registrar’s office and get their free college easy breezy. That’s not the way it works. |
You're wrong, apart from being dumb. |
To be fair, officers' wives are typically more educated (like attracts like), so they do sacrifice more than the high school grad who marries her first boyfriend right after he graduates from basic. For the latter, the military lifestyle is a step up. For the former, it's forfeiting what could have been. |
IMO, it's short-sighted to use your the GI Bill for yourself when TA is available. We don't know anyone with < 18 year old children who's done it. |
I mean, I was excited to hear about this mythical benefit I didn’t know existed. 🤣 |
I think it is behavioral selection due to the eligibility criteria to join the military to some extent. They need to have a decent aptitude score to become an officer and there are mental/physical health screenings that exclude many people who would otherwise be interested in the program. There are minimum SAT scores or ASVAB scores required to be eligible for the college based officer training program. So almost everyone starting in the military officer training programs have average or more(mostly above average intellectual ability) and they are in better physical/mental health than the average person. Then some of the people that do not pass the training program are weeded out. Furthermore, the remaining pool of people is going to skew towards higher achieving since their careers are less likely to be derailed by health issues. Their family backgrounds are also going to skew wealthier due to the correlation between mental/physical health and family income, as well as the wealth/income gradient with respect to intellectual ability. |
A lot of black and white thinking here. The Post 9/11 GI Bill definitely can benefit children. Like anything else, if you're ignorant, or dismissive, or don't care, yeah, you can definitely f*ck it up. Saying it's "mythical" when it's clearly not is a good start. Thank you for your service in destabilizing central Asia and the Levant. |
I mean sure. I generally agree with you. But not everyone has kids by year 14 where you wouldn’t be incurring another x years past your 20. TA is capped per fiscal year and with deployments and such it’s not always super simple to be going to school and working at the same time. We’re kind of grappling with all this now and figuring out the best way to approach it. There’s a lot that has to line up in order for it to work is my point. |
It literally does, though. DH transferred his GI Bill to our oldest, who chose a service academy, so he transferred it again to our youngest, who's going for free. You're not making your case like you think you are. |
I never said it couldn’t help. It absolutely can and it’s a great benefit if you are informed on how to take advantage of it. One of the best things the military offers to its service members with the soaring cost of education. I was simply dispelling this notion that all military kids get free college. |
Fair enough, but in general, even now, most people do have kids by 32 or 36. Hope you can figure out a good solution. |
They forfeit basically everything. Most of the officers that I know spent at least a decade moving every year and deploying. It's not the 3 year assignments many get towards the end and I'd you keep going to 06 and above the pace is every year you move. |
I’m so happy that worked out for you. I would love for that to be the case for us, too. I think it’s fair to say a lot of things had to line up and it’s not a universal truth. That’s the only point I was attempting (maybe poorly) to make. |
They could actually come from an old money family, some of them especially from the South value military service. |