Or -- hear me out, here -- maybe women need to decide whether or not dating the men available to them is really worth it, or if they want to stay single. Because if the men don't measure up, maybe it's up to them to do better instead of women's responsibility to accept less (if that lesser is not worth it to them). |
if they's rather not have a man than pick from the options open to them, then that's how it goes. The men here on DCUM seem overwhelmingly fixated on weight, which -- fair enough -- is a choice. But maybe they need to widen their dating pool and drop their standards if they want a relationship and/or children. |
^^If they'd |
Why? The single childless women I know are some of the happiest people I know. Meanwhile the single childless men are often angry and miserable. At least based on what I see, men are the ones that should be changing. |
If I was not happily married with a good income, I definitely would not have children. |
There's only a finite number of seats at elite colleges and professional programs. We're seeing the decade of "girls who code" and "boys play sports" coming up through the system now. The numbers don't add up, unless multiple women want to share the Alpha male - in which case - sure I'd happily be that male. |
What's a guy got to be? 6'0? Make over $150k / year? In decent shape? |
Maybe the "normalization" of being overweight / obese is just another tool the elites are using to prevent us all from having kids. I mean, make enough men/women unattractive, bury everyone in their 20's in student debt, make homes cost $1.5M, and you're bound to have a declining birth rate. |
Western societies emasculate their men. Testosterone levels are at their lowest in human history. What results do you expect?
More over, men now prefer to date other men, women date other women. Those are among other things recipes for birth rate decrease. |
Loving the direction this conversation is taking. Have you perhaps looked into a sunlamp for your ballz? |
I know “girls who code” but don’t get the “boys play sports” … |
There seem to be a lot of men under 6 foot height and under $150,000 per year who are still dating and getting married. Maybe it has something to do with filing down the chip on the shoulder and not requiring being mothered in a relationship, I dunno. |
Got a cite for that? How long do you think we've been measuring testosterone levels in a routine way? |
I think women have really changed in the last couple of generations. Unfortunately, I don’t think men have changed much. The idea of a “trad wife” or the whole “man of the house” trope is not really appealing for women. Women are looking for an equal partnership and until men adjust to this idea, marriage won’t be in the cards. |
And the planet will be really happy to see the human population decrease as it will take men a LOOOOOOONG time to get it together. As someone that wants a healthy, sustainable planet, it’s a good thing! |