OP, when you are divorced you will literally do everything in your own home. Is that what you want?
I GUARANTEE your kids will prefer Dad's house. Get your anxiety and possible OCD addressed medically. Life will likely look quite different when you do. I grew up with a mom like you and it was not happy. Even "fun" things were tense. None of us see her much now. Her untreated anxiety got worse with age and it destroys relationships. |
If OP got divorced she wouldn’t have to clean up behind DH anymore. Sounds like less work to me. |
OP is a bad mom who has made even the "rare" family movie night tense over a plate and wakes up raring to attack to ruin breakfast too. |
This. And all because a plate with a presumably clean bottom was set on a couch. Ffs. |
Lol Mama be proud of your big male piggies! Long live the patriarchy! |
Nobody use or jiggle the couch folks, need to let Dad’s dirty pizza plate rest there for a few more nights. |
Wrong again. She brought up the dirty plate on the safe after the movie was over. Read all about it in the Op. he then picked a fight. That’s their toxic pattern and how he need a reminder to do basic stuff, and how he reacts to a reminder. Bet he did the same for reminders when a juvenile. Never outgrew that juvenile reaction. Or into good habits. |
Yes… after the movie was over. Probably when the lights were turned on and the TV was turned off… so she noticed it. She didn’t say anything about her husband’s whereabouts, so I assume he was still sitting right next to it. And then SHE picked a fight. I’m sorry but you sound quite dense with your take on this situation. |
It's not that it was important -to him- to leave the plate on the coach .. but it's just one more thing Op nags about. He wants to have a more relaxed life. His home too. She doesn't get to decide the rules. |
Wow. Reading comprehension is at an all time low here. It isn’t about one single plate. |
+1 |
Normal person: Yup, picking it up now. Psycho person: shut up! Who cares! I like it there! So what! |
If someone acted "shocked" (OP's words) over such a minor thing, I would probably be defensive too. "Who cares" would be my response for sure. |
Use paper plates for pizza night.
See how easy this is? |
That must have been terrifying, PP. So glad for both of you that things turned out well. |