Long-term boyfriend has attitude problem

[Anonymous]

Time to move on, OP. Once they start being contemptuous and disrespectful, there's nothing left. He doesn't value you. It's just going to feel worse and worse. Those who don't value you don't deserve you. They usually end up doing bad things to you. And the fact that his behavior makes you feel bad means you need to listen to your gut and get out now.

As others have said, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

[Anonymous]

Some people are too quick with the "dump him" or "divorce" advice.

However-

Its been 6 years. Things aren't getting better. And from my experience, things get tougher after marriage especially if you have kids. So your relationship isn't great, its trending downward, and in 10 years things will generally be more challenging with fewer "romantic butterflies".

You do the math.

[Anonymous]

You sound like a nag.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some people are too quick with the "dump him" or "divorce" advice.

However-

Its been 6 years. Things aren't getting better. And from my experience, things get tougher after marriage especially if you have kids. So your relationship isn't great, its trending downward, and in 10 years things will generally be more challenging with fewer "romantic butterflies".

You do the math.

+1

[Anonymous]

Did you ever leave him it’s been like almost a decade from this question 😭😭

[Anonymous]

Sassy male epidemic

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You sound like a nag.

Sorry you loathe women but this disqualifies you from the conversation.

OP, this isn’t even a tough one. I can’t think of a reason for you to stay (besides fear of being alone, which is not a good reason).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend of 6 years has always been kind of pissy, for lack of a better word. The past year or so it has gotten much worse. He is easily angered and annoyed and I am getting tired of it. He huffs and puffs/ rolls his eyes during normal conversations and it makes me feel bad. He is also quick to get angry at small things. I've tried talking to him and telling him how it makes me feel, but nothing changes. I love him but lately I've been fantasizing about leaving him. I think I could find someone who is more positive and doesn't make me feel like I'm annoying for initiating conversation. Leaving him would change my life dramatically though. What would you do? Is he going to change? Is he maybe depressed?

You have your answer. What you decide to do with it is up to you.

[Anonymous]

He wants out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did you ever leave him it’s been like almost a decade from this question 😭😭

what exactly did you search to find this particular 9 year old thread? and why did you make the effort to resurrect it?