Would you date a guy with 4/3?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does he play in the nfl/nba?

No. Just your average computer guy

Obviously, these other women found him attractive, so you must too.

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Does he live in Massachusetts? If so, run!

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To quote Kandi Buruss's mama on RHOA:
'Too many baby mamas'

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OP, is he involved with his kids? Does he spend time with them?

I'd say no, for these reasons:

1) If he's got three kids from three different moms, if he is an involved dad, then all he does in his spare time is go from house to house to attend your children. And he has no money because he is making under 200K and supporting them all.

2) If he is NOT going house to house caring for all his children, and instead he's looking around for whom else to boink, then that's pretty sh***y for the kids. And he's a lame-ass dad.

3) If he's a lame-ass dad, if you have a kid with him, he's going to be a lame-ass with your little snowflake as well. And if he's NOT a lame-ass dad, your snowflake will not get much of him because he's busy tending to the others.

[Anonymous]

It depends. Do you want a kid? If you're at that point in life where you're ready to have a kid - and you don't want to go the sperm donor or adoption route, then I think this would be a good bed.

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Anonymous wrote:It depends. Do you want a kid? If you're at that point in life where you're ready to have a kid - and you don't want to go the sperm donor or adoption route, then I think this would be a good bed.

And cheaper. LOL

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No way in hell

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Was he married to any of them? I think I'm more understanding of 2 baby mamas if you were married to at least 1. But 3 communicates lack of judgement.

Also, as a PP mentioned, unless he's a millionaire, his checks are probably eaten up by child support.

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Does he know how babies are made? How to wear a condom? How do you have that many kids by different women?!!?

Is he a good dad? Does he have 50/50 custody? His parenting skills would show you what kind of man he is.

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Like it or not, guys like this will genetically rule humanity in the future. People who have regular homes with supportive parents that have no drama/no divorce, have what, average two kids? How is this going to work out in the future from a Darwinian viewpoint? Maybe he has valuable genetic stock? Does anyone think he is more valuable now than other men because he has succeeded in spreading his seed?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does he play in the nfl/nba?

No. Just your average computer guy

Hmm. I once had a blind date with a computer guy in a similar situation. I wonder if this is the same guy. Within the first hour of meeting him he went on to tell me about every single relationship, paternity testing, custody battles, cheating exes. It was enough to send me packing.

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I'd ask if she was dating my ex, but he's married to yet another woman by now.

Yeah, I went out with a guy who didn't even tell me he had kids at all. Then I find out he has two kids, plus an adopted one, by one wife. (he wasn't 100% sure one of them was actually his.) Then it comes out later that he has yet another kid by another ex-wife. He was 32. After we broke up, he remarried right away and has more stepkids. Dude makes very little money.

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Anonymous wrote:Does he know how babies are made? How to wear a condom? How do you have that many kids by different women?!!?

Is he a good dad? Does he have 50/50 custody? His parenting skills would show you what kind of man he is.

He thinks so. No. And I forgot about another possible 3 kids (to be fair one set of twins). That would be 7 kids, 5 different mothers. - OP

[Anonymous]

There's always someone willing. Hear stories women marrying convicted murderers on death row they've never met just exchanged a few letters with. There's always someone willing.