Please help settle this debate

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I agree that he should go. It's a slippery slope with allowing kids to shirk responsibility, even if the responsibility seems pointless. Attending school is his "job" right now; responsible adults don't get to just not go to work when they are expected to be there. So he is actually learning something- sometimes you have to do things even if you don't want to!

I agree. In my house this wouldn't even be up for discussion. School is in session, they are in school, end of story.

[Anonymous]

I take a different approach, and I think context matters. I feel that if the school system is failing to respect my kids' time, they cannot insist that the kids do their part and show up. It's rude. The time they spend watching stupid movies (earlier this week, selections from a Monty Python film), preparing for and taking standardized tests, and cleaning up classrooms is offensive to me. They are supposed to be there to learn. For example, my 9th grader asked me last week if she could go in late, because she was having a double PE class period because of the standardized testing schedule. For the double PE, they were going on a bowling field trip, and if kids didn't go bowling they would have to sit in the cafeteria and do worksheets. No way I was going to make her haul her ass out of bed at 5:30 to catch a bus at 6:30 in order to either go bowling or fill out worksheets.

[Anonymous]

I went to school that last day or two to say goodbye to some friends and it's literally 100% unsupervised wandering. Nothing gets done those days whether they go or not. That really goes for the same week but it's actually the last day where they pretty much tell you that unless your parents are constantly sniffing your farts and you HAVE to know your grade early, it is purely optional. Attendance isn't taken, technically they could just not go to school at all and you wouldn't know. I went for fun because I had a lot of friends and there isn't anything scholastic about it besides the location. "School's in session, every kid should be there" haha, you guys must all be seriously really old.

[Anonymous]

Here is my feeling, say fine stay home. You can spend a couple hours reading a book. We can work on these math facts. Or whatever is academically appropriate for your kids age. School may look more interesting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I went to school that last day or two to say goodbye to some friends and it's literally 100% unsupervised wandering. Nothing gets done those days whether they go or not. That really goes for the same week but it's actually the last day where they pretty much tell you that unless your parents are constantly sniffing your farts and you HAVE to know your grade early, it is purely optional. Attendance isn't taken, technically they could just not go to school at all and you wouldn't know. I went for fun because I had a lot of friends and there isn't anything scholastic about it besides the location. "School's in session, every kid should be there" haha, you guys must all be seriously really old.

You are full of bs!

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't send my children. The teachers are not teaching lessons and it's just a general "see you next year/have a good summer" type thing with the students.

In past years, students were "housed" in the gymnasium all day....when I found this out, I pulled them out for the final days. Too little supervision and too much opportunity for mischief (including settling end of the school year beefs).