Is being moody a sign of emotional abuse?

[Anonymous]

Main character syndrome

[Anonymous]

So you are antagonizing him and he doesn’t like it? And you are making this about you even though he is ill and going through something?

[Anonymous]

troll

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To the two PPs above, what did your emotional abuse look like?

Are you serious? You can literally look this up.

You can use Google. Here is one article. All of this below. For years. It is a long-time pattern.

(For me the highlights were things like not letting me spend $20 when I was earning over 100k, public disrespect, mean "teasing," put downs, constant insults, not letting me go to the grocery store, controlling my reproduction, gaslighting (saying things never happened when they did), divorce threats, talking me out of jobs I wanted, graduate school and not letting me start a business--control, insults about my friends and family to isolate me)

From this article: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/emotional-abuse

What are the warning signs of emotional abuse?

Emotional abuse centers around control, manipulation, isolation, and demeaning or threatening behavior. Signs of abuse include:

• Monitoring and controlling a person’s behavior, such as who they spend time with or how they spend money.

• Threatening a person’s safety, property, or loved ones

• Isolating a person from family, friends, and acquaintances

• Demeaning, shaming, or humiliating a person

• Extreme jealousy, accusations, and paranoia

• Delivering constant criticism

• Regular ridicule or teasing

• Making acceptance or care conditional on a person’s choices

• Refusing to allow a person to spend time alone

• Thwarting a person’s professional or personal goals

• Instilling self-doubt and worthlessness

• Gaslighting: making a person question their competence and even their basic perceptual experiences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband learned that he had fatty liver yesterday. Since then he has been in a bad mood and snaps at me when I ask questions and doesn't want to engage with me. It hurts my feelings. Is this a form of abuse?

well, then I have been serially abused for the last 30+ years. It's pretty much every 3-4 weeks my wife's mood became extremely varied and she snaps at me (and the kids sometimes) simply because aunt flo is visiting.

/s

[Anonymous]

If being moody is abuse then my wife has been abusing me for 14 years.

[Anonymous]

I never knew fatty liver was such a catastrophic thing lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I never knew fatty liver was such a catastrophic thing lol

This is really not something to joke about. My uncle almost died and thankfully got a liver transplant. Just a fatty liver can be manageable but there are degrees of severity, and the worst degree can be fatal.