How late is too late to stay up?

[Anonymous]

If I didn't have kids or work responsibilities, my natural preference is to go to bed at midnight and get up at 8 or 9am.

I look forward to moving to that schedule in retirement!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you have kids? Is he up to help them?

Is he avoiding time with you and/or your kids?

If he’s otherwise functional, I would leave him alone.

—not a night owl either, but understand we can’t all control how we sleep—

+1 these are the relevant Qs

Also, related to #2 do you feel like his weird schedule means you're not getting any/much time together?

If so, focus on what the real concerns are.

[Anonymous]

Apparently 12:27 am I am drooping.