Parents get it wrong half the time and don’t realize that their child is the leader. |
+1Your kid might also be serving as a bad influencer. It can’t be all on that one child that they so closely align with. |
Define “bad influence”. |
Probably a B student. |
I’m the PP from up thread (I was that kid). In my case, we moved across country after 7th grade and I never saw the bad-influence boys again. In their case (the bad influence boys I left behind) one of them ended up in juvenile hall (late 1970s); I think he stabbed another kid with a knife. The other kid did stuff like low-level arson, building little bombs, pilfering marijuana from his dad and step-mom’s illegal greenhouse, breaking car windows at night with a slingshot just for fun, petty theft, shoplifting, etc. typical teen boy stuff. We knew well we were under 18 so they couldn’t do anything to us, even if we got caught. This was all in California a long time ago. |
Clearly a very long time ago. I doubt OP is concerned about "juvenile hall." But we can't be sure, because OP has gone MIA, or at least they are refusing to clarify what they mean by "bad influence." Probably means the kid who is the bad influence got a B in math and has parents that let them go to parties with both boys and girls or something. |
My parents were ones who thought every kid who didn’t get straight As with 2 parents in a single family home was a bad influence. It sucked.
Now, we focus on our kid. We are honest - like hey, I know Joe failed math and ditches school. That’s fine but just know that isn’t what we expect of you. We trust you but you have to continue to show us that we should. So far, it’s working. He is on a sports team where half the kids really don’t care about school or college. We focus on his actions and he can still be friends with others but same rules don’t always apply. |
Are you the OP?? |
Child does AOPS online instead of going to RSM in person. Plays the flute instead of the violin. Eats Oreo cookies. |
Exactly as I thought. Cut this friendship immediately. |
Me too, all because of assigned seating in homeroom. A drop of poison spoils the well |
No I forgot to put NP. |
Many kids in FCPS are really into vaping in 2024.
Kids can’t buy vapes; that’s illegal. Since it’s all illegal for kids anyway, it really doesn’t matter if it is illegal nicotine or an illegal marijuana vape, like Britany Griner got caught with. Kids in FCPS vape a lot of marijuana. They do it in the bathrooms. Ask your own kids if they see/smell vapes at their school. |
But is doing marijuana in school really “a bad influence?” Or totally ok? |
I just saw an ad for THCA blunts on this thread So.. I.. really can’t say |