Just because someone fits the role of sincere, loving, fun, romantic, active, caretaking, homemaking type on social media, doesn't mean behind the scene reality is the same. |
This is folly for the girlfriend. “None of his money is mine” either. It goes both ways. |
My LTR just proposed this to me and I told him to go F himself. It’s over. |
Why? |
you sound rude |
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Not to mention, sleeping with her employer |
Are you really asking why? |
Yes, why doesn’t it automatically become a wate of years? |
Meant to say “…why does it…” |
You are hilarious. |
These women do work- they are expected to cook, clean, organize the boyfriend's life, look like a 10 at all times, and perform in the bedroom whenever boyfriend wants.
All so they can have a place to live and food to eat. This isn't going to work once they start to age because their value is in their beauty. A shallow, stupid arrangement for the women. One of the worst things from social media is the influence of prostitutes convincing women to strive for this "easy" lifestyle. |
I found my stay at home gf on seeking the sugar baby page. There was a thread here not too long ago about sugar daddies check it out. We did the sugar thing for a few months but the connection chemistry and sex was great so I upgraded her status and downgraded how much cash I was putting into it (no more allowance but I take care of all her expenses which is barely half of what the allowance was since she lives with me now and doesn’t need to cover her own rent) not just that but instead of twice a week sex (on the arrangement) now I can have twice a day sex when I want. She is caring attentive and a great cook too. Has a decent education and comes across as classy, UMC type not someone I would want to “hide” from family and friends. She knows that I have zero intentions to further upgrade her status to wife
Win win |
Forgot to add she came to USA as an au pair (check recent thread on that too) so helps me with my kids on the weeks I have them. Did I say win win? WIN for me. |
Does she have any other jobs? Is she currently in graduate school? Does she want a family? What are her future plans? Just curious why an educated young woman is in a futureless relationship and not trying to further a long-term career. |