Excellent example of someone who has a hammer and thinks everything is a nail. One of my kids meets your criteria. Turned out to be anxiety. He was in an OT playgroup with other kids working on the same issues he was having. One kid had anxiety like DS. One kid had apraxia of speech. Two kids had ADHD and one kid had ASD. Ten years later, none of the had ASD added to their diagnosis and no suspicion of it. Interestingly, my kid with ASD domestic your criteria. 🤔 |
those are literally the criteria from the DSM, which literally defines the disorder. if you’re saying you have a kid who meets the DSM criteria but doesn’t have autism; and one who had autism but doesn’t meet the DSM criteria, that’s … interesting. |
sure they do. but if they also socialize markedly differently than peers, have sensory issues, and the frustration appears to result from rigidity, kid is probably going to get an autism DX. |
Sure, there are 1000s of providers willing to bankrupt OP claiming that their therapy works and is essential early intervention. |
We paid about $150 per week for OT before we got new insurance that pays for it. Is it cheap? No. Is it going to bankrupt the typical DCUM family? Not even close. Your posts reveal your ignorance. You don't know what you are talking about and you are misinforming OP when you make these absurd generalizations. If you aren't a troll, I encourage you to share your specific experience with a provider that was "willing to bankrupt" you, what the signs were and how OP can avoid them. The notion that all OTs fall into this category is blatantly false and completely unhelpful. |
Of course I know what I’m talking about. I have paid thousands and thousands and dollars and spent countless hours on therapies for a kid whose primary challenge is emotional regulation. The only thing OT was useful for was fine and gross motor (which should not be shocking given that motor skills are actually the scopt of OT practice). Unfortunately there are many many ways to waste your time and money with a SN kid. The things that were actually useful: - an ed consultant to get the first IEP and BIP (but after that a waste of $$) - actually trained behavioral psychology therapist - 1:1 sports coaching - my own actually trained therapist - Xbox and switch so my kid could participate in mainstream boy social life - |
Oh forgot to add - the book “how to talk so kids will listen.” best parenting advice and is free from your local library. |
Thanks for sharing your specific experience, which does not apply to all children. |
You’re definitively all in on using the already notoriously ridiculously loose criteria in the dsm that are intended to guide experienced clinicians, to internet diagnose strangers. You’re probably also opening coffin doors for people online who say they have night sweats and have lost weight aren’t you? |
no, I’m not a clinician. But the subset of people on here claiming that they have a kid with “social challenges, sensory processing issues, and low frustration tolerance - but DEFINITELY not autism!” are just not really believable. btw I do think autism is over diagnosed, but more because the kid doesn’t actually have a “clinically significant impairment,” not because the core criteria are missing. |
enjoy wasting your money! |
OP, my dc did OT at that age and it was very beneficial for them. Particularly the low frustration tolerance. Sometimes the delayed motor skills cause frustration. With OT, you can always try it and see if you feel it helps. Insurance often covers it, and it's fun for the child. There's not really a downside, and if you don't feel it helps, you can end it. |
Ok, PP-got to be honest with you. I know what I'm talking about, also, and the bolded would be useless for my sn child. They don't play sports and actively dislike xbox. But OT was very beneficial for them. The bolded items weren't a waste of money for 'your' kid but would be for mine. |
It hasn't been a waste at all for us. And unlike you, I'm not insisting OPs experience will match ours, but I do think OP should use advice of vetted licensed professionals to guide their decision and not dismiss recommended treatment out of hand. |
For those that mentioned social skills classes do you mind naming which ones? I agree evidence based would be fantastic. |