Dating and constant social media posts

[Anonymous]

Is she good in bed?

[Anonymous]

This is very attention seeking, needing external validation behaviour. Very unattractive in someone over 40. At this point in life, you want to date someone who is confident in themselves and doesn't care that much about what others think. That is one of the perks of aging!

I also would be turned off by someone being on their phone and social media all the time.

[Anonymous]

Is she over 40?

And/or

Is she trying to monetize her platform?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The people I know who do this very obviously want a specific ex to see their posts.

Yup

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've been dating someone for the past three months and she consistently posts everything we do on social media. On Instagram in her stories she posts what we ate, drank, and every stop we make. She's posted numerous selfies in my home. We're over 40. I'm not sure if she's just excited to be out or what, but is this normal behavior in 2024? It feels like she has something to prove to someone.

Have you talked to her about it?

[Anonymous]

Is she constantly on tik tok too?

[Anonymous]

Gtfo not normal.

[Anonymous]

Most elder millennials got over posting anything on social media starting about 10 years ago and definitely had it completely phased out by Covid.

That generation more than any took a look at social, tried it out, and dropped it like a hot potato.

She’s definitely an outlier.

[Anonymous]

This is concerning from a mental health standpoint. I am a psychologist. It would also drive me nuts, and would be a deal breaker!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The people I know who do this very obviously want a specific ex to see their posts.

Very much this. “Let me show you how over you I am.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The people I know who do this very obviously want a specific ex to see their posts.

Very much this. “Let me show you how over you I am.”

That’s who she’s thinking about when she posts these things. Not you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The people I know who do this very obviously want a specific ex to see their posts.

Very much this. “Let me show you how over you I am.”

That’s who she’s thinking about when she posts these things. Not you.

yep

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is she over 40?

And/or

Is she trying to monetize her platform?

Yes, she's over 40. Her page doesn't look like she's trying to be an influencer. Her photography isn't that great. So I don't think that's it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is she constantly on tik tok too?

She's on Tiktok but doesn't post as much there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The people I know who do this very obviously want a specific ex to see their posts.

Very much this. “Let me show you how over you I am.”

That’s who she’s thinking about when she posts these things. Not you.

Great. I thought it might be something like that.