And now? What does she do with all that training? Besides haveing an eating disorder. |
She's not even in K yet, I would focus on having her try lots of things and then get more serious when she gets older. |
Disagree. My DD started dance late but had this exact choice and she strongly wanted B. It’s been great. She loves being on a team, has made great friends, and has gotten all the things kids get out of a competitive sports experience- building grit, handling pressure, navigating the highs and lows of winning and losing. Most of her school friends did travel soccer and there’s Stockholm Syndrome there, too, if you think it’s in dance. She’s unlikely to pursue competitive dance or ballet past high school so in the end I’m glad she did the thing that makes her happy |
Another former dancer. Of the two choices, I'd pick A for these reasons. But I'd look for C: a studio that prioritizes health, well-being, and fun over competition. I'd ask what age they put kids en pointe. If it's too early (anything before age 12-13 IMHO), I would run away. I'd want to hear that they had a thoughtful answer regarding strength and training and technique before they move dancers to pointe. I'm also biased, but I love tap, jazz, and some hip hop, and think that they can be healthier on the joints long term than the turn-out in ballet. |
OP, if you’re anywhere near Arlington, this describes Perfect Pointe. We’ve been pleased with the balance they provide. I’m not sure it’s the best quality ever because they don’t get pushed, but I guess that’s also why they’re not injured and why competitions are so positive (emphasis on the experience and personal growth, not all about winning). Costumes are modest, too. |
No eating disorder, what a bizarre assumption. She is off to college. Like a lot of dancers or athletes, she has moved on to other things but wouldn’t give up her years of ballet for anything. Her elderly grandmother, also a Vaganova student, still takes weekly adult ballet classes so it’s not like it’s something she can’t continue to enjoy. |
I am also a Vagonava trained dancer who takes weekly ballet lessons! Still love it. |
The soccer kids aren't shaking their bootie in next to nothing for a plastic trophy. |