When you’re married to a dud

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Just a wet blanket. He has become so predictable. What a turn off.


Agreed. So not attractive! I'm over it as well.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:The way you are referring to your spouse shows a total lack of respect, it’s doesn’t bode well for your marriage. I am not defending them, I am sure they have their faults but the words we use are indicative of what our thought are.


DP

It’s her husbands job to keep OP entertained and he’s failing miserably. He probably doesn’t even make that much $$$.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The way you are referring to your spouse shows a total lack of respect, it’s doesn’t bode well for your marriage. I am not defending them, I am sure they have their faults but the words we use are indicative of what our thought are.


It’s also disrespectful to leave messes for others in your home, not respond to emails, not greet people, not do what you agreed to do.

And after a pattern of that disrespect and selfishness, people don’t respect you nor speak favorably of you.

Funny how that works.


Indeed - a dud begets a dud, a wet blanket begets a wet blanket...


And then you leave.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am the dud. Currently engaged to someone who doesn’t realize it. I work at a low level in a prestigious profession.


Lolz

What’s your next move then PP? Lock it in with a baby?
Anonymous
Just a wet blanket. He has become so predictable. What a turn off.


Agreed. So not attractive! I'm over it as well.


Quit complaining and get a divorce. You DHs will be better off, without a doubt.

We can all see this coming down I-95 with the headlights on. The bimbo OP (and this follow-on bimbo PP) will divorce their DHs, hit the dating pool at the shallow end, and come up empty.

They will be back on DCUM within a couple of years complaining about how hard it is to date as a divorced mom, etc., and complaining about how the man they want treats them like crap (which makes them want him even more.)
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am the dud. Currently engaged to someone who doesn’t realize it. I work at a low level in a prestigious profession.


Lolz

What’s your next move then PP? Lock it in with a baby?


Nah. Just keep doing my best and hoping it’s enough.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am the dud. Currently engaged to someone who doesn’t realize it. I work at a low level in a prestigious profession.


Document review guy, did you get engaged?
Anonymous
I'm a dud. I make Ward Cleaver look exciting. But I make a lot of money so my wife puts up with me.
Anonymous
I separated from my dud and I feel so good about it. I was already doing everything around the house and with kids myself, but now I’m proud of it instead of resentful.
Anonymous
I'm married to a dude. It's great.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Call me.


This poster should be banned.
So lame.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I'm a dud. I make Ward Cleaver look exciting. But I make a lot of money so my wife puts up with me.


Dud's do not make a lot of money. Having a large income automatically gets you out of the dud category.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm a dud. I make Ward Cleaver look exciting. But I make a lot of money so my wife puts up with me.


Dud's do not make a lot of money. Having a large income automatically gets you out of the dud category.


And into adhd/asd dud category
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Just a wet blanket. He has become so predictable. What a turn off.

So leave…
Anonymous
"So predictable" is not an insult IMO. OP sounds like an addict, chasing the next high. Predictable, reliable are all good things!
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