No contact with separated spouse?

[Anonymous]

No contact. He doesn’t pay for kids college. Much happier without him in my life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How much contact did you have with spouse after separation? I’m fine with no contact and just a couple words at kid exchange. Wondering how other people handled it and if it evolved over time.

Minimal communication only related to what impacts children. As much of it as possible done by text or email.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married 26 years separated for 9 months. Tried to communicate for our kids but the end of March we started spending more time together and after 2 weeks I really thought we would reconcile even our oldest son discussed it with me but was I wrong just like that he completely ghosted us except for sending money through one of those payment apps . I am confused and have no reason why he started acting like this. Any opinions or insight please

He ghosted your child too? What kind of father has he been? How old is your son?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married 26 years separated for 9 months. Tried to communicate for our kids but the end of March we started spending more time together and after 2 weeks I really thought we would reconcile even our oldest son discussed it with me but was I wrong just like that he completely ghosted us except for sending money through one of those payment apps . I am confused and have no reason why he started acting like this. Any opinions or insight please

This is very odd. I would suspect there is another romantic relationship behind this.

[Anonymous]

Recommend as little communication as possible.