Classic dumb DCUM troll with the long convulsed follow up posts and selective Q&A every page. Lame. |
Of course I have had this conversation with my spouse hundreds of times. He is currently at the peak of his career while I am trying to re enter the workforce. He will likely make $3m this year and has other projects that he would potentially make millions. If he could work half as much and still earn $1m while I go back to work, that would be my best case scenario. Financially, Dh going from $3m+ to $1m so his wife could go back to work and earn 100-200k obviously doesn’t make financial sense. The more likely scenario will be that I will have to handle everything I do now and Dh continues to work and help out when he can when he is home. |
I think OP just made this post to underscore how intellectual, funny, and sexy she is and how sexy her husband finds her. |
Meant the more likely scenario is that I would still have to handle everything I do now after I go back to work and Dh will continue to work and only help out when he can when he is home.
Problem is this was hard enough when I had 2 kids. Now I have 3 kids with many more activities. |
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Is one of you in World Bank? Divorce rate is so high there, so many single Moms. That’s just what you sign up for. You are trying to be the exceptional. You just need to make some exceptional efforts, with no guarantee of success. Life is an adventure, isn’t it? |
You didn't even start the thread, but here you are, dominating it. You are revealing a lot about yourself here. And it's not good. |
you are....COMPLAINING about this? Oh christ. Just hire someone and go back to work. Seriously I can't understand how people who cannot figure out one iota of the issues in their relationship can make this much money. I have to go with family connections or inheritance. |
OP, I can empathize with your situation although our household income is a fraction of yours. I have a research degree in an underfunded field so working in my field is several multiples below DH’s current income. At one point when I was working, an employer offered him a salary increase that was equal to my total salary at the time but required a move, so I had to leave my job. I’ve never been able to get back into it full time because of that situation. It’s not a remote-friendly job. I don’t hear bragging in your post- just coping and juggling. I feel frustrated with that reality and wish almost daily that I had used my intelligence to study something more valued by American industry so that finding opportunities was not so limited. |
It's some sort of special myopia of the G&T kids that grew up thinking they were so special that they'd never have to deal with the issues of THEM. |
I am responding to someone responding to me. I already wrote upthread that the sweet spot seems to be two flexible jobs earning a few hundred per year and OP and her husband should be able to obtain that easily. I went first getting the lateral 9-5 job and eventually stopped working but Dh never followed to a more flexible job. Instead his work got more demanding and higher paying. |
No, some men need to be told exactly what to do to help. This doesn’t mean they don’t like you. If they want sex with you, then they are showing how they feel that way. I’m not a huge fan of every idea in this book, but read Love Languages for more on this. |
We know a lot of world bank, foreign service, state department and diplomatic families. There are also professors and think tank guys who would fit into this category. I’m sure each of these people think they are solving world problems and doing something very important and “intellectual”. They are but they are also a dime a dozen. |
Exactly. I know scores of these people based on my job and social circles, and many have outsized egos for what they are actually contributing to the world. They are paid in part in ego, as generally the actual income is capped around $200 (although the business and econ profs can make more). |
That doesn’t make them non-intellectual, PP. |