Is this all an act?

[Anonymous]

I met a woman who is 39 with two young kids and married to a successful nice 58 year old man.

I understand she was an AP and he left his wife and three kids to marry her.

She has a long history of failed friendships, drama and entitled behavior.

Now that’s she’s married to her DH she acts fairly normal and grounded. Is it possible she has grown up, or is this all an act?

[Anonymous]

She’ll be it banging behind his back—probs Lu already is. He’s much older and she has the cheating gene. Women that get a taste for that lifestyle and adrenaline rush, dopamine hit never stop.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She’ll be it banging behind his back—probs Lu already is. He’s much older and she has the cheating gene. Women that get a taste for that lifestyle and adrenaline rush, dopamine hit never stop.

I don’t think she has a history of cheating. She wasn’t married or dating anyone when they met.

[Anonymous]

If she's 39 she married him for money and an easy life. But, unless he's some amazing man in good shape in two years she'll be looking for the next best thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If she's 39 she married him for money and an easy life. But, unless he's some amazing man in good shape in two years she'll be looking for the next best thing.

I don’t see them getting divorced. She just had another baby with him.

[Anonymous]

Nothing is an act. People show you who they are. Meaning: every human is complex. You cannot judge them based on a single trait.

As usual, people on this site are arrogant, quick to judge, and don’t actually know what goes on in people’s lives.

Try to be a better human instead of constantly second guessing other people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nothing is an act. People show you who they are. Meaning: every human is complex. You cannot judge them based on a single trait.

As usual, people on this site are arrogant, quick to judge, and don’t actually know what goes on in people’s lives.

Try to be a better human instead of constantly second guessing other people.

I’m very cautious about getting involved with a woman who ran off with another woman’s husband and has a history of drama. That’s why I’m asking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nothing is an act. People show you who they are. Meaning: every human is complex. You cannot judge them based on a single trait.

As usual, people on this site are arrogant, quick to judge, and don’t actually know what goes on in people’s lives.

Try to be a better human instead of constantly second guessing other people.

People on this site are terrified of being the DW who lost out in this situation.

[Anonymous]

The man is the one who cheated. Maybe he will do it again.

[Anonymous]

Agreed. Good people do bad things, does that make them bad. Bad people can also do many good things...think about Pablo Escobar.

Anonymous wrote:Nothing is an act. People show you who they are. Meaning: every human is complex. You cannot judge them based on a single trait.

As usual, people on this site are arrogant, quick to judge, and don’t actually know what goes on in people’s lives.

Try to be a better human instead of constantly second guessing other people.

[Anonymous]

Past behavior is the best predictor for future behavior. It’s not perfect, but it is the best predictor. The real question is why are you so desperate to figure this woman out. Are you that desperate for friends?

[Anonymous]

“ Involved” in what way OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nothing is an act. People show you who they are. Meaning: every human is complex. You cannot judge them based on a single trait.

As usual, people on this site are arrogant, quick to judge, and don’t actually know what goes on in people’s lives.

Try to be a better human instead of constantly second guessing other people.

I’m very cautious about getting involved with a woman who ran off with another woman’s husband and has a history of drama. That’s why I’m asking.

Getting involved how?

[Anonymous]

She has 2 young kids and realized she needed a sugar daddy. She got one and knows she needs to behave to keep him.
He is scum of the earth for leaving his wife and kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Agreed. Good people do bad things, does that make them bad.??? Bad people can also do many good things...think about Pablo Escobar.

Anonymous wrote:Nothing is an act. People show you who they are. Meaning: every human is complex. You cannot judge them based on a single trait.

As usual, people on this site are arrogant, quick to judge, and don’t actually know what goes on in people’s lives.

Try to be a better human instead of constantly second guessing other people.

Simple- Making a mistake is human. We all do.
Doing repeated bad things and hurting people means your a bad person. Don't equivocate