Boyfriend’s cat died unexpectedly
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Anonymous
| Any words of wisdom on what to say/do here? Cat was not sick. |
Anonymous
| I’m so sorry for your sudden loss. Then I’d say nothing else because I hate cats. |
Anonymous
| Just be supportive. He’ll be grieving. |
Anonymous
| Is he the one who choose the cat over you and your infant? |
Anonymous
OMG. I had the same thought. |
Anonymous
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Say something like, "I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved friend" because that is what this is. I would do something extra nice for him also.
My husband had a little cat when we met, and when Angus died, he cried every night for a week. It's a horrible loss, especially when it's unexpected. |
Anonymous
| I'm so sorry. Just be extra kind to him. That's what people need when they are grieving. |
Anonymous
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Be there for him.
I am an animal person and do OK when I have to out one down that is expected, but an unexpected loss adds shock to the equation and it is much harder. |
Anonymous
Please don’t say this. You are not a generic Hallmark card. Agree with the rest. I swear ChatGPT could script better than DCUM most of the time. |
Anonymous
| Just be there for him. Do something nice for him like get his favorite take out and watch his favorite movie. Know he may be sad for a little bit. |
Anonymous
| Don’t worry it will come back as another cat or a demonic spirit. |
Anonymous
No |
Anonymous
Why did you feel to say that? My mil died Sorry for your loss but I hate mothers in law |
Anonymous
I said the last sentence to explain why I wouldn't say anything else about it. Hence the word "because." |
Anonymous
You could have just said the first sentence. Why would you say I hate cats on a pet forum? You don't have to share every thought! |