Our son just told us he's trans
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Anonymous
| Our son just told us that he is trans. What does that mean? This is an honest question. Please help us parents. |
Anonymous
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Start by moving away from “son” and “he” assuming they are M to F. Then start by asking what support they need.
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Anonymous
| How old? |
Anonymous
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How old are they?
Ask them what it means to them Whether it’s a phase or not, be supportive and stay connected. |
Anonymous
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The number one thing is support. Use the pronouns they ask you to as a starting point. Help them get supportive counseling. Are you in DC? Whitman-Walker is a good resource.
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Anonymous
| Yes, we were supportive and accepting...just not sure what we are trying to accept. DC is 17 and did not elaborate on any details about what they mean exactly. Though we have gay friends I don't think I have any T friends and just don't know who to ask about this. |
Anonymous
Look up PFLAG. Very helpful resources. At this phase, follow your child’s lead. That’s all you need to do at this point |
Anonymous
| Thanks all |
Anonymous
| If you’re in the DC area rainbow families can also be a good resource for socializing with other queer families. |