You save them for.... a while.
From a 4 yr old's perspective, that paper with J's on it is very important to your daughter. Perhaps she was practicing the first letter of her name, or one of her good friends' names, or it's a letter she likes or....
BUT that doesn't mean you have to frame it in the house. Just keep those things in a box with a lid somewhere she can't see it and then toss everyone out on the last day of the month, except the really cool/fun/sweet/cute ones, however you define that. Then on the 1st of the month you'll have an empty box to start over again.
Reminds me of a story my sister tells. Her 4 year old daughter collected.... everything. EVERYTHING. acorns, little rocks, big rocks, sticks, stones, twigs, leaves, pebbles, seedpods, pinecones, you name it, she'd collect it and want to bring it inside. The big things she parked outside the door, on the patio. The little things she was allowed to bring them in.....
and my sister would cull them (aka toss them in the trash or back outside, depending on what they were)... one day after quiet time, my niece had snack and then tossed the wrapper into the trash can in the kitchen to find..... her morning's find on the top of the trash! Horrors! My sister covered quickly, scooping them out and saying they must have been mixed in with papers she threw away....
After that, my sister still culled but never into the kitchen trash, always to the big trash outside! (or back to nature)
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