MS and HS Bathrooms - Normalizing Dangerous Areas at School

[Anonymous]

I find it highly disturbing that we normalize that it’s ok for bathrooms at many FCPS MS and HS to be unsafe. Like most parents, we advise children to avoid them due to drugs/vaping/violence/rape/etc.

We are in big trouble as a community by telling our children to avoid a primal necessity, like going to bathroom, because it is dangerous.

Why has no PTA or parent group pushed this on FCPS? Kids should not avoid drinking water and going to the bathroom because of safety concerns. What solutions are there for FCPS to monitor and supervise our children better at school so they are safe?

Has anyone else reflected on the normalization and desensitization of this safety issue that’s unresolved and unfair to our children? Have any schools addressed this?

[Anonymous]

Bathrooms were an issue when I was in school. Kids smoked, there were drugs, and they were gross. I am not certain how you fix the issue, short of hiring monitors who stand outside the bathrooms, which would be expensive given the number of bathrooms. You are looking at how many full time jobs to monitor bathrooms.

[Anonymous]

You’re right, it sucks that kids feel unsafe using the bathrooms. Everyone should feel comfortable with that basic need. I teach high school and it breaks my heart when kids are scared to go.

But what do you suggest? Schools are trying all sorts of things, and none of it is making a dent (closing popular drug bathrooms so there are less to monitor, putting cameras in the hallway to review who goes in there for more than 5 minutes, ehallpass to monitor who is out of class when, limiting hall passes for prior offenders)

I think the only things that would work would be literally stationing an adult inside the bathroom as a monitor. A) that’s cost prohibitive, b) no one is going to sign up to sit in a hs bathroom for 8 hours a day, and c) I think you’d get a lot of pushback about adults in restrooms with kids.

Alternatively, we could put airport security scanners in every school and scan every bag, instrument case, sports equipment, jacket, shoes. It would take 2 hours for kids to get in and they’d miss 75% of contraband) because vape devices literally look like flash drives or pens), but it might discourage some.

Do you have other ideas? I’m serious, I’m happy to bring them to admin. We brainstorm around this a lot and haven’t had any grand ideas.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You’re right, it sucks that kids feel unsafe using the bathrooms. Everyone should feel comfortable with that basic need. I teach high school and it breaks my heart when kids are scared to go.

But what do you suggest? Schools are trying all sorts of things, and none of it is making a dent (closing popular drug bathrooms so there are less to monitor, putting cameras in the hallway to review who goes in there for more than 5 minutes, ehallpass to monitor who is out of class when, limiting hall passes for prior offenders)

I think the only things that would work would be literally stationing an adult inside the bathroom as a monitor. A) that’s cost prohibitive, b) no one is going to sign up to sit in a hs bathroom for 8 hours a day, and c) I think you’d get a lot of pushback about adults in restrooms with kids.

Alternatively, we could put airport security scanners in every school and scan every bag, instrument case, sports equipment, jacket, shoes. It would take 2 hours for kids to get in and they’d miss 75% of contraband) because vape devices literally look like flash drives or pens), but it might discourage some.

Do you have other ideas? I’m serious, I’m happy to bring them to admin. We brainstorm around this a lot and haven’t had any grand ideas.

What about having two additional security guards, whose only job is to randomly check bathrooms. A male and a female. They randomly check the bathrooms throughout the day. If caught, make the punishment severe. Have them wear some kind of audio recording as a check on guards themselves.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You’re right, it sucks that kids feel unsafe using the bathrooms. Everyone should feel comfortable with that basic need. I teach high school and it breaks my heart when kids are scared to go.

But what do you suggest? Schools are trying all sorts of things, and none of it is making a dent (closing popular drug bathrooms so there are less to monitor, putting cameras in the hallway to review who goes in there for more than 5 minutes, ehallpass to monitor who is out of class when, limiting hall passes for prior offenders)

I think the only things that would work would be literally stationing an adult inside the bathroom as a monitor. A) that’s cost prohibitive, b) no one is going to sign up to sit in a hs bathroom for 8 hours a day, and c) I think you’d get a lot of pushback about adults in restrooms with kids.

Alternatively, we could put airport security scanners in every school and scan every bag, instrument case, sports equipment, jacket, shoes. It would take 2 hours for kids to get in and they’d miss 75% of contraband) because vape devices literally look like flash drives or pens), but it might discourage some.

Do you have other ideas? I’m serious, I’m happy to bring them to admin. We brainstorm around this a lot and haven’t had any grand ideas.

What about having two additional security guards, whose only job is to randomly check bathrooms. A male and a female. They randomly check the bathrooms throughout the day. If caught, make the punishment severe. Have them wear some kind of audio recording as a check on guards themselves.

So…2 people at $40,000 a year at 100 MS and HS schools. That would cost 8 Million dollars a year.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You’re right, it sucks that kids feel unsafe using the bathrooms. Everyone should feel comfortable with that basic need. I teach high school and it breaks my heart when kids are scared to go.

But what do you suggest? Schools are trying all sorts of things, and none of it is making a dent (closing popular drug bathrooms so there are less to monitor, putting cameras in the hallway to review who goes in there for more than 5 minutes, ehallpass to monitor who is out of class when, limiting hall passes for prior offenders)

I think the only things that would work would be literally stationing an adult inside the bathroom as a monitor. A) that’s cost prohibitive, b) no one is going to sign up to sit in a hs bathroom for 8 hours a day, and c) I think you’d get a lot of pushback about adults in restrooms with kids.

Alternatively, we could put airport security scanners in every school and scan every bag, instrument case, sports equipment, jacket, shoes. It would take 2 hours for kids to get in and they’d miss 75% of contraband) because vape devices literally look like flash drives or pens), but it might discourage some.

Do you have other ideas? I’m serious, I’m happy to bring them to admin. We brainstorm around this a lot and haven’t had any grand ideas.

What about having two additional security guards, whose only job is to randomly check bathrooms. A male and a female. They randomly check the bathrooms throughout the day. If caught, make the punishment severe. Have them wear some kind of audio recording as a check on guards themselves.

What a job - they'd be called the peepee patrol.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You’re right, it sucks that kids feel unsafe using the bathrooms. Everyone should feel comfortable with that basic need. I teach high school and it breaks my heart when kids are scared to go.

But what do you suggest? Schools are trying all sorts of things, and none of it is making a dent (closing popular drug bathrooms so there are less to monitor, putting cameras in the hallway to review who goes in there for more than 5 minutes, ehallpass to monitor who is out of class when, limiting hall passes for prior offenders)

I think the only things that would work would be literally stationing an adult inside the bathroom as a monitor. A) that’s cost prohibitive, b) no one is going to sign up to sit in a hs bathroom for 8 hours a day, and c) I think you’d get a lot of pushback about adults in restrooms with kids.

Alternatively, we could put airport security scanners in every school and scan every bag, instrument case, sports equipment, jacket, shoes. It would take 2 hours for kids to get in and they’d miss 75% of contraband) because vape devices literally look like flash drives or pens), but it might discourage some.

Do you have other ideas? I’m serious, I’m happy to bring them to admin. We brainstorm around this a lot and haven’t had any grand ideas.

What about having two additional security guards, whose only job is to randomly check bathrooms. A male and a female. They randomly check the bathrooms throughout the day. If caught, make the punishment severe. Have them wear some kind of audio recording as a check on guards themselves.

So…2 people at $40,000 a year at 100 MS and HS schools. That would cost 8 Million dollars a year.

There are about 50 MS and HS combined, not 100, in FCPS.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You’re right, it sucks that kids feel unsafe using the bathrooms. Everyone should feel comfortable with that basic need. I teach high school and it breaks my heart when kids are scared to go.

But what do you suggest? Schools are trying all sorts of things, and none of it is making a dent (closing popular drug bathrooms so there are less to monitor, putting cameras in the hallway to review who goes in there for more than 5 minutes, ehallpass to monitor who is out of class when, limiting hall passes for prior offenders)

I think the only things that would work would be literally stationing an adult inside the bathroom as a monitor. A) that’s cost prohibitive, b) no one is going to sign up to sit in a hs bathroom for 8 hours a day, and c) I think you’d get a lot of pushback about adults in restrooms with kids.

Alternatively, we could put airport security scanners in every school and scan every bag, instrument case, sports equipment, jacket, shoes. It would take 2 hours for kids to get in and they’d miss 75% of contraband) because vape devices literally look like flash drives or pens), but it might discourage some.

Do you have other ideas? I’m serious, I’m happy to bring them to admin. We brainstorm around this a lot and haven’t had any grand ideas.

What about having two additional security guards, whose only job is to randomly check bathrooms. A male and a female. They randomly check the bathrooms throughout the day. If caught, make the punishment severe. Have them wear some kind of audio recording as a check on guards themselves.

Dream on. If schools could impose punishments, we wouldn't be having this problem in the first place.

[Anonymous]

Smaller schools where kids aren’t anonymous would go a long way. Lower student: teacher ratio. Somewhere along the way society decided to accept excessively large schools in exchange for better sports fields, cafeterias, theaters, etc. Now the adults are so outnumbered they throw up their hands.

[Anonymous]

Port a potties outside.

[Anonymous]

My kids don' t have issues with the bathrooms at their schools (Rocky Run and Centreville).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Smaller schools where kids aren’t anonymous would go a long way. Lower student: teacher ratio. Somewhere along the way society decided to accept excessively large schools in exchange for better sports fields, cafeterias, theaters, etc. Now the adults are so outnumbered they throw up their hands.

There are smaller schools. They are called Sidwell Friends and Potomac, not Oakton and West Potomac. That ship has sailed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Smaller schools where kids aren’t anonymous would go a long way. Lower student: teacher ratio. Somewhere along the way society decided to accept excessively large schools in exchange for better sports fields, cafeterias, theaters, etc. Now the adults are so outnumbered they throw up their hands.

30 years ago, I had 600 kids in my entire high school, in an 1500 kid district where everybody knew everyone else, and you couldn’t sit on the toilet seats because they had craters burned into them from putting out cigarettes, and I only used the bathroom during the semesters I had PE. I don’t love the size of high schools in fcps, but that’s not the problem here.

[Anonymous]

Single stall bathrooms that open into the hall with security cameras that monitor who goes in and out, plus actual consequences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Single stall bathrooms that open into the hall with security cameras that monitor who goes in and out, plus actual consequences.

At the very least, there should be cameras that track and record who enters and leaves bathrooms, especially female bathrooms.