Two bedroom home with teen and new baby
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Anonymous
| Currently living in a two bedroom home, and can’t afford to move right now so that’s not an option. I have an almost 16 year old and a baby on the way. Obviously the baby will be in the room with me for the first year, but I’m concerned on what to do afterwards. I have a basement with a full bathroom that could be used as another bedroom. My teen wouldn’t mind moving down there. My only concern in her being in the basement by the back door. Plus it’s extra cold down there in the winter. Then I thought about having the kids share a room since the teen will be off to college in a few years. What would you do in this situation? |
Anonymous
| Give your teen the basement, put an extra lock on the door. |
Anonymous
| I'd say offer the teen the basement. Get a home security system where you get an alarm when the basement door is opened. I wouldn't lock it so she can't open just in case of an emergency. I'd also put a motion light and/or camera off the basement door outside so there are multiple ways for you to be notified if the teen were to sneak out. |
Anonymous
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Is there anyway to turn a hallway into a tiny/nursing room for the baby crib?
Then in 3-4 years you can turn that into a hobby/man cave or workout space? Third bedroom upstairs will add value to a home! |
Anonymous
| Baby could continue to room with you until age 3. |
Anonymous
+1. Your other option is for you to move down to the basement if you want your own space after the baby turns 2 or 3. Use a monitor and you will still hear the then toddler if they cry for you at night. |
Anonymous
| If the teen wants to move to the basement I would do that. I would not force a move though. Agree with PPs about cameras at all exits . |
Anonymous
| Is the teen happy to move to the basement? The cold issue can be fixed with money. |
Anonymous
Unfortunately there’s no room. |
Anonymous
She is, she’s wanted that to be her room since we moved in. She spends majority of her time down there if she’s not in her room. |
Anonymous
| Basement for teen |
Anonymous
| There’s your answer OP. This is an easy one. |
Anonymous
| But don’t literally lock your teen down there. Fire safety is important. |
Anonymous
| Let her take the basement. Do not lock her in there!!! |
Anonymous
+100. Door must unlock from the inside without a key. |