My bf can’t stop looking at women with big butt…
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Anonymous
| I keep catching my bf looking at every woman who has a big butt. It is making me very insecure as I don’t have a big butt. How should I approach this with him? I am 35 and he is 45. |
Anonymous
| Ask him to be less obvious when you're together. |
Anonymous
| To be honest I wonder if men today are still turned on by women with nice asses because we are bombarded with sexual imageries of women. Assets that would see only behind closed doors in the past are now on full display in the open and everywhere you turn that’s what you see. |
Anonymous
| He’s rude. I don’t know if a 45 year old man can kick that. |
Anonymous
“Baby - you need to up your game, because your obvious ogling is a big turnoff. Reach out when you have it under control.” This is his problem - not yours. Don’t focus on your insecurities. He has bad game. |
Anonymous
| Let him enjoy the views and every time he does it make jokes about it. As a man I would say it’s a natural reaction to look at snide ass whether partnered or not. The real men though are those who just look and stop there. Your BF as the previous poster noted is inundated with beautiful women with beautiful derrière in skinny jeans yoga pants walking by all day all they are everywhere. The man’s brain is somehow wired to glance at those 2 cheeks honestly no matter their size lol. |
Anonymous
Lol…My wife is a teacher and teaches in the same middle school as my son. The other day she told me that she will start wearing baggy jeans on Fridays because one of her student told our son that his mom had a really nice ass. So you see with boys it starts at a young age. |
Anonymous
| Ew what a pig, he's oogling so hard it's that obvious? Look, we all notice attractive people, but to oogle of the point of uncomfortablity is gross. He's 45 and still single? Colour me not surprised... |
Anonymous
| Just make his ringtone on your phone “I like big butts and I cannot lie” and you will laugh everything you hear from him. And he will never know. |
Anonymous
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Why so insecure? You’re 35 years old and he’s with you. Embrace your beautiful self!
The only thing less attractive than not having a butt is the stench of insecurity. |
Anonymous
| So far the men say it’s fine and the women are grossed out… |
Anonymous
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It's unattractive. His looking at other people's butts and your insecurity.
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Anonymous
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PAWGs rule
Op, there are programs that can help you build that 🍑 |
Anonymous
| There was a picture of Obama and Macron checking out a woman who a beautiful butt and let me tell you they were checking that ass hard lol. Listen it’s harmless. |
Anonymous
What’s is a PAWG?! |