Same. Did 6 mos at my parents home while grandma interviewed at centers (like living with a 2 yo again), then she paid 3 years in memory care, bankrupt herself, and then the church or taxpayers paid the rest. Stayed in same place. Prob 10 years total. |
Good lord. What the holy fk is wrong with you people.
Man offers to give foot-rub -> he has a foot fetish. Man holds door open -> patriarchy! Man desires comfortable life for spouse -> I don't need you to want something for me! Man stays home to take care of kids -> You're a lazy ass Man works his fingers to the bone -> You're a workaholic and have no time for me! Man is masculine -> Toxic! Man is feminine -> Too needy! Man is in-between -> He's so...blah! Then you wonder why most of the men around you have these hidden mental health issues. - written by a non-binary person (so I can skate by without getting blamed for anything) |
Nothing costs nothing! |
And her A is low, the way it should be. |
Y'all are falling for influencer rage bait. |
Why does the feminist in you “die” because of this? |
USA, the land of dole and gore. |
1. Women should not view themselves as less than and therefore the default unpaid labor. Men shouldn't view women this way either. 2. Family support goes a long way. I didn't have family support and didn't come from money. I waited until I could afford kids to have them. Women need to make smart choices rather than just believing what man tells them. Only marry and have children with men that share this vision. |
SAH spouse earning potential at age 55 after being out of work force for 25 years: $60K Working spouse earning potential at age 55 after divorcing: same as they were making prior to divorce....easy 6 figures Sure, they may split the assets 50/50. But divorcing at 55 means you need still need private sector health insurance for another 10 years. And if you're a woman, you're likely to live another 30 years. So you need to work. |
Well said! |
And in walks the misogynistic a$$. The PP sounds like my husband, except we have 4 kids. We also have a real estate side hustle and intend to give a property to each child outright. |
Her A was actually the reason I asked her out. It just all turned out good due to dumb luck on my part. |
You don't "skate by" because clearly you have issues. Big ones! |
You mean the dead politician that ran for president but wasn't successful? |
Oh yes, Honey, yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My own TSP went through the roof. |