What about in a medical setting? Are you okay with a nurse practitioner with a doctorate in nursing saying- hi I’m doctor blank, how can I help you today? Or a pharmacist / physical therapist? All are doctors?
I think that in a professional hospital environment only MDs should use doctor to avoid confusion. Outside of the hospital, anyone who wants to go by doctor should be able to. |
I work in a large non-medical office setting where we have a psychologist on staff who does do clinical work. She refers to herself as “Doc <first name>” consistently, even with people she is not treating directly - introduces herself like that to people she doesn’t know, leaves voice messages, talks about herself in the third person, etc. This is in a place where everyone is otherwise informal and goes by just their first name. It rubs me the wrong way and several people were confused and thought she was a primary care doctor or psychiatrist when I asked them out of curiosity. I do agree it’s ok for a psychologist to go by Dr when speaking with patients in a fully clinical setting. |
In an academic setting, it's fine if someone wants to go by Dr. if they have a PhD. A little cringey but whatever.
In a medical setting, it's appropriate if a doctor goes by Dr. It's a job title there. In their personal lives? It's all douchey. |
Language evolves. PP is right this is why it is seen as obnoxious. You don't have to agree with it but this is the reason other people think it is obnoxious. It feels in some ways like the person is trying to cutely get one over on you. |
Boundaries in relationships with power differentials are basic-level safety practices. PP's statements are accurate. First name interactions are fine for some patients. For other patients it creates an impression of false intimacy. For others it diminishes their perception of your training. For still others they'll finish their conversation with you and ask "so when is the doctor going to come see me?". Using the professional title you've trained for, in a professional setting, evens the communications playing field, and is neither "weird", nor "unsafe". I get that the healthcare system is a mess, but the doctor bashing on this thread alone is wearying. I'm the PP who put tape over my first name, and received 12 questions in response from a poster, who sailed past the point of my physical boundaries being violated and the deep sexism that still exists when female doctors see male patients, to land on "is that tape dirty". And people wonder why we're burned out. |
If you were secure in yourself, another person’s earned professional title would have no impact on you. |
It's not an earned professional title. It's an academic title. If someone wants to use it in an every day setting, that's fine. Just know that people think it's silly. |
Different fields have different norms. One that I find particularly jarring is education — where let’s be honest the level of research quality is appalling low. Ed doctorates love to be called Dr.
It’s particularly weird when they’re in a room full of parents who actually have PhDs in fields where you can’t sneeze on a tissue and submit it to a journal. |
You can be embarrased all you want, and i might be too, but he IS a doctor- he's a doctor of philosophy, not a medical doctor. |
I find MDs who use the title Dr. to be incredibly pretentious. |
oh god i hate it when lawyers make this argument. you have a termnial degree. big whoop. |
they are in some places (e.g., in some areas of latin america). engineers are also addressed as such. |
I work in healthcare and MDs/DOs are some of the most deranged, egotistical people in the entire world.
My relative is an MD and addressed their Christmas cards with “Dr.” Talk about lame. |
Thank You! I did my residency in a very doctor friendly place, it was almost uncomfortable how nice people were when they found out Im a doctor. I have lived in the DMV 15 plus years now and have never seen so much doctor hatred in my life.... |
Why did you put a tape over your name? I tihnk the bolded part matters. I find it annoying when an MD comes in, says "I'm Dr. Smith, nice to meet you Jane." Choose one or the other for both yourself and me, |