What is attractive to ambitious men?

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Anonymous wrote:No drama, easy going, skinny, under 35, beautiful, preferably white or Asian.

+ good education without debt and promising career

Why would I care that she received a “good” education, whatever that is?

You would want smart children. It is often said the best indicator of your child’s success is the mother’s education level.

Disagree. While it would be great for the mother to be educated, there are countless examples of SAHM w/ a HS education raising accomplished kids. Immigrant families stress the importance of education which is why so many of the children are accomplished.

Immigrant families also tend to have families where both parents are highly educated, the minimum being a college degree

You can’t be that smart yourself if you don’t know that intelligence is mostly genetic. It’s not “education” - it’s how well the person’s brain works.

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Anonymous wrote:No drama, easy going, skinny, under 35, beautiful, preferably white or Asian.

+ good education without debt and promising career

Why would I care that she received a “good” education, whatever that is?

You would want smart children. It is often said the best indicator of your child’s success is the mother’s education level.

Disagree. While it would be great for the mother to be educated, there are countless examples of SAHM w/ a HS education raising accomplished kids. Immigrant families stress the importance of education which is why so many of the children are accomplished.

Immigrant families also tend to have families where both parents are highly educated, the minimum being a college degree

We are talking about immigrants from Scandinavia or the Netherlands, right?

You do know that only 12% of immigrants admitted into the US in the last 4 years have a college degree from an accredited college I hope.

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Anonymous wrote:No drama, easy going, skinny, under 35, beautiful, preferably white or Asian.

+ good education without debt and promising career

Why would I care that she received a “good” education, whatever that is?

You would want smart children. It is often said the best indicator of your child’s success is the mother’s education level.

Disagree. While it would be great for the mother to be educated, there are countless examples of SAHM w/ a HS education raising accomplished kids. Immigrant families stress the importance of education which is why so many of the children are accomplished.

Immigrant families also tend to have families where both parents are highly educated, the minimum being a college degree

We are talking about immigrants from Scandinavia or the Netherlands, right?

You do know that only 12% of immigrants admitted into the US in the last 4 years have a college degree from an accredited college I hope.

Accredited by whom?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No drama, easy going, skinny, under 35, beautiful, preferably white or Asian.

+ good education without debt and promising career

Why would I care that she received a “good” education, whatever that is?

You would want smart children. It is often said the best indicator of your child’s success is the mother’s education level.

Disagree. While it would be great for the mother to be educated, there are countless examples of SAHM w/ a HS education raising accomplished kids. Immigrant families stress the importance of education which is why so many of the children are accomplished.

What kind of immigrant moms? I am the child of Asian immigrants. My mom worked a blue collar job despite having a college education and I grew up poor. I was a strong student, went to a top college and ivy grad school, where I met my DH with a similar background.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Nice rack (C or D cup), small waist, long hair, pretty face. Then will do all the housework and most of the childcare while consenting to sex whenever privacy is available.

Sorry, insisting on privacy is a dealbreaker.

Only for exhibitionists. Not all men with high earnings are exhibitionists

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Fit, friendly, feminine. And you know when to shut up, and when to talk.

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Anonymous wrote:Fit, friendly, feminine. And you know when to shut up, and when to talk.

Here I was dreading the task of writing my dating app profile, and you just did it for me.

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Rembrandt + Mark Cuban hybrids don't exist. You might find an odd banker who plays cello decently in some Ivy League circles. There aren't enough hours in a day to maximize both forks in the road.

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My DH is a former D1 college athlete, Ivy League law, now big law partner. He likes me because we share a similar sense of humor and similar interests. I am ambitious but that's honestly just gotten in his way in life. He would be happier if I didn't work, though I do.

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Anonymous wrote:Fit, friendly, feminine. And you know when to shut up, and when to talk.

This x100

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Anonymous wrote:No drama, easy going, skinny, under 35, beautiful, preferably white or Asian.

+ good education without debt and promising career

Why would I care that she received a “good” education, whatever that is?

You would want smart children. It is often said the best indicator of your child’s success is the mother’s education level.

Disagree. While it would be great for the mother to be educated, there are countless examples of SAHM w/ a HS education raising accomplished kids. Immigrant families stress the importance of education which is why so many of the children are accomplished.

Immigrant families also tend to have families where both parents are highly educated, the minimum being a college degree

You can’t be that smart yourself if you don’t know that intelligence is mostly genetic. It’s not “education” - it’s how well the person’s brain works.

No but education teaches you how to think, research and analyze.

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Anonymous wrote:Nice rack (C or D cup), small waist, long hair, pretty face. Then will do all the housework and most of the childcare while consenting to sex whenever privacy is available.

Oh yes, good education and no debt are key.

They are, for both genders.

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Men who are like this don’t care about your education, job, etc.

They want the prettiest, fit, with the best personality. They give zero f#cks about your career or education.

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Anonymous wrote:Rembrandt + Mark Cuban hybrids don't exist. You might find an odd banker who plays cello decently in some Ivy League circles. There aren't enough hours in a day to maximize both forks in the road.

Agree. OP needs to drop her “culture” requirement.

Also agree with fit, friendly, feminine (and thin).

Unlike what others have posted here, my attorney and doctor female friends shared that many of their ambitious male colleagues did not prioritize ambition in their wives. One very attractive friend had better luck dating when she identified as a yoga instructor vs attorney.

I don’t know many people in finance so can’t speak to those guys.