Doubtful |
Yes. Each of your successes in each others.
You are a team. |
Your H handled his pregnancy well |
Yes, he managed the kitchen and younger kid well my third trimester, did more driving and grocery shopping and rearranged the kitchen in his own helter skelter way. Team effort. Tag teaming. |
"Actually her husband may not have been capable of rising in the ranks if he had to attend his own children and home."
So nobody is successful at his company who is single, has no children, has a wife who works and has children? |
You’re starting with the wrong post, idiot. |
That is not what I said. Some people are not capable of doing both jobs well. Some people can. That seems pretty objectively true to me. He might be one of those people who can attend to his home and rise up the corporate ladder. Not all people can. |
One of the people who CANNOT attend to home and rising up the ladder. |
Right but as a 1, I don’t see the issue? If having a career is so important to the OP why not start working again? You are correct that I find people like the OP annoying because she fails to take ownership for her past and present choices. |
You mean he ran the house, His house with his kids. He didn’t handle a pregnancy more than he handles chemo when you get cancer. It’s amazing how women think men running their own house is going above and beyond. Did more driving lol more not all of it just more. |
Sure, but everybody can hire a cleaner. It’s really not that hard. People who make a fraction of his income, have cleaners. You’re telling me that if he had to Higher cleaner instead of having us stay at her mom, he would not have been able to advance in his career. Y’all are twisting yourself in pretzels trying to prove you have something to do with somebody else’s success. |
Cool humble brag. |
A person with a fraction of his income hired a cleaner? Ok. Would he make a million per year while doing the daycare run? |
Yes. He can. Daycares open very early. Plus he could have a nanny Who is much less of a burden than a wife. |
NP here. OP, I am in a similar situation like you: highly trained, mommy track, high-earning husband. Difference: my husband is far from appreciating my contribution (I do everything at home, he nothing), considers me a parasite, and tells me to ramp up my career.
You are blessed. |